30 days: Change your habits, Change your life

Always expect the best!
Life doesn’t always give you what you
want, but it sure gives you what you expect! Do you expect success?
Or do you spend most of your time worrying about failure? Our
expectations about ourselves and others come from our
subconscious beliefs and they have an enormous impact on our
achievements. Your expectations influence your attitude and your
attitude has a lot to do with your success.
Your expectations also affect your willingness to take action and all
your interactions with others. Many of us know all this and yet most
of us expect negative outcomes when asking one of the favorite
questions of the mind—
“What if?”
By asking this question, 
we
are
often focused on what doesn’t work:
“What if it doesn’t work out?”
“What if she doesn’t go out with me?” “What if I don’t get the job?”
“What if I don’t get the raise?”
“What if I lose my job?” However neither does that feel good, nor is
it good to focus on what we fear. 
Why not turn this around and ask
yourself for every limiting or
negative thought, “What if the
opposite is true?”
“What if it worked out great?” “What if she says
yes?” “What if I get a raise?” “What if I become a millionaire with this
idea?” “What if I found resources?” “What if I can make it happen?”
“What if now is the time?” “What if this little book helps me change
my life for real?”

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The single adjustment in how you ask a question transforms
you, your energy, and the answer you get.
It changes your
thinking and your 
inner dialogue
. Suddenly, you start asking 
what
if up
questions in your head, rather than 
what if down
questions.
The benefits of shifting your thinking will be:
• Less stress, fear and anxiety.
• You will feel more peaceful.
• Your energy level will go up.
• It allows you to be the inventor of your own experience.