you with a proposal about how the money will be divided between the two of you. It’s an ultimatum:
you can either accept the proposal as it stands and split the money as proposed, or you can reject it,
and both of you will get nothing. You might never see each other again, so he acts like a taker, keeping
$8 and offering you only $2. What do you do?
In terms of pure profit, it’s rational for you to accept the offer. After all, $2 is better than nothing.
But if you’re like most people, you reject it. You’re willing to sacrifice the money to punish the taker
for being unfair, walking away with nothing just to keep him from earning $8. Evidence shows that the
vast majority of people in this position reject proposals that are imbalanced to the tune of 80 percent
or more for the divider.
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Why do we punish takers for being unfair? It’s not spite. We’re not getting revenge on takers for
trying to take advantage of us. It’s about justice. If you’re a matcher, you’ll also punish takers for
acting unfairly toward
other
people. In another study spearheaded by Kahneman, people had a choice
between splitting $12 evenly with a taker who had made an unfair proposal in the past or splitting
$10 evenly with a matcher who had made a fair proposal in the past. More than 80 percent of the
people preferred to split $10 evenly with the matcher, accepting $5 rather than $6 to prevent the taker
from getting $6.
In networks, new research shows that when people get burned by takers, they punish them by
sharing reputational information
. “Gossip represents a widespread, efficient, and low-cost form of
punishment,” write the social scientists Matthew Feinberg, Joey Cheng, and Robb Willer. When
reputational information suggests that someone has taker tendencies, we can withhold trust and avoid
being exploited. Over time, as their reputations spread, takers end up cutting existing ties and burning
bridges with potential new ties. When Lay’s taking was revealed, many of his former supporters—
including the Bush family—distanced themselves from him. As Wayne Baker, a University of
Michigan sociologist and networking expert, explains, “If we create networks with the sole intention
of
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