Pathological consultation of conflict families

Pathological consultation of conflict families
Suschnost psykologicheskogo konsultirovaniya konfliktnykh semey zaklyuchaetsya v varabotke rekomendatsii po negativnykh izmeneniyu psykologicheskikh faktorov, zatrudnyayushchih zhizni i vyzyvayushchih conflicty, espobenno pri perekode semii iz odnoy stadi razvitiya v druguyu.
Osnovnye zadachi psykologicheskogo konsultirovaniya: individualnye i gruppovye konsultatsii lits, obrativshikhsya k spetsialu s tselyu reshenia slojnyx problem, priobreteniya psikologicheskikh znaniy ili razreshenia konfliktov; vyyavlenie konfliktnykh semey i provedenie s nimi konsultatsiy; okazanie pomoshchi my wife v vyyavlenii ix oshibok i vybore propernogo povedeniya v trudnyx situatsiyax seymnoy jizni; obuchenie metodam samoregulyatsii psikhicheskogo sostoyaniya.
Semeynoe konsultirovanie rassmatrivaetsya kak odna iz Form sprujeskoy therapyi, poskolku rech idet o lee simplex poverkhnostnyx i kratkovremennyx psychoterapevticheskikh vozdeystviyax, v obnonom v conflictnyx i krisisnyx situatsi . ok _ Konsultatsii pozvolyayut nayti vykhod iz konkretnykh kon- fliktnykh situatsiy, pri etom primenyayutsya prejde vsego takie metody, kak explikatsiya, pooshchrenie, individualnye reko - mendatsii i sovety (S. Kratokhvil ).
Psychological consultation is associated with specific problems.
1. Problem time. Psychologist doljen za kortkiy srok op- redelit prichiny, motivy, uzoliya conflicta, pokazat sp-rugam vozmojnosti vosstanovleniya ix atnosheniy.
2. Different degrees of conflict between family members and spouses . Znachitelnaya chast obraschayushchihsya za psychologicheskoy pomoshchyu eto molodye lyudi, recently pozhenivshiesya. For nix correction, psychological incompatibility is effective. However, it is rare for a psychologist to have a delo s syamiami, which inevitably evolves into razvodu. Effektivnost ix psychologicheskogo konsultirovaniya neznachitelna.
Eshche odna gruppa konsultiruemyx lyudi s protivorechi - voi systemoy motivov, kak prepyatstvuyushchih, tak i sodeystvuyu- schikh sohraneniyu sprujeskikh atnosheni. Pervaya gruppa moti - vov obuslovlivaet sokhranenie konfliktov, vplot do gotovno - sti idti na razvod, v to vremya kak motivy, sodeystvuyushchie sokhraneniyu semi, delayut vozmojnym psykologicheskuyu correct - tsiyu sprujeskikh atnosheniy .
3. Povyshennaya agressivnost konsultiruemogo po atnoshe - niyu k husbandu i konsultantu. Osobennost konfliktnyx semey, nakhodyashchixsya na stadii razvoda, uproshchennaya motivirov - ka takogo reshenia. Eto zatrudnyaet polnuyu diagnostic sprujeskikh otnosheniy. Vajno zainteresovat konsultiruemyx v bolee glubokom raskrytii ix semeynyx i lichnyx problem, a takje transformirovat situatsiyu, gde psychologist providit ex- pertizu vzaimootnosheniy husnov, v situationyu, kogda sami oni s pomoshchyu psychologist pereosmyslivayut motive conflict.
4. Nalichie neosoznavaemyx komponentov konfliktnogo povedeniya izhanov znachitelno uslojnyaet polozhenie konsultiruemyx i rabotu psychologa-konsultanta (V. Smehov). Etapy psychologicheskogo konsultirovaniya. Apredelenie neobhodimosti konsultirovaniya i prognos effekta vozdeistviya na semyu - eto nachalnaya diagnosticheskaya stadia korrektsii sprujeskikh atnosheniy. The diagnostic stage includes structural, descriptive, dynamic, genetic and prognostic levels (3. Tysyachnaya). For the diagnosis of marital conflict, it is recommended to use the method of analyzing conflict situation - MAKS (V. Smehov). Ona pred- stavlyaet soboy svobodnoe opisanie conflicta v vide otvetov na proprosy, kotorye obedineny odinnadtsat reflexivnyx B planov. Vajno predstavit vnutrennyuyu kartinu konfliktnogo sobytiya khotya by odnogo iz ego uchastnikov. Effektivnoe is - polzovanie metodiki vozmojno posle ustanovleniya psychotera - pevticheskogo kontakt.
Vtorym etapom konsultirovaniya konfliktnykh semey yavlya - etsya vosstanovlenie sprujeskikh atnosheniy. Uspeshnost perekhoda k nemu zavisit ot snijeniya psikhicheskoy napryajennosti konsultiruemogo. Inogda v sprujeskom konflikte slojiv shiesya otnoshenia vosprinimayutsya kak neizbejnye, iz-za chego poyavlyayutsya chuvstva bespokoystva, bezyskhodnosti, jalosti k sebe. Vajno stremitsya izmenit pessimistichnoe otnoshenie sup- rugov k situatsii.
When normalizing the spring relationship, it is necessary:

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  ne dopust novogo obostreniya konflikta v prisutstvii psychologa (obvineniy, oskorbleniy, grubosti);
  
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  ne stat na sideronu odnogo iz izzhovov, tak kak neredki popytki vklyuchit consultanta v kachestve "soyuznika" v konflikte;
  
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  s samogo nachala stremitsya k rasshireniyu ponimaniya konfliktnoy situatsii, otsenki ee s positsii opponent;
  
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  terpelivo otnositsya k medlennoy, no pozhitelnoy evolyutsii, vosstanovleniyu sprujeskikh otnosheniy;
  
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  uvajitelno otnositsya k norms i tsennostyam, kotorye prinimayutsya ili otstaivayutsya vysyutsya;
  
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  ne stremitsya davat sovety, a pomogat nayti pravlinoe reshenie samim; soblyudat delicacy and anonymity, especially in the case of intimate relationships with spouses.
  

Psychologist-consultantu ne vsegda udaetsya normalizovat otnoshenia husbandov, kotorye obratilis za pomoshchyu. R. May Podcherkivaet neokhodimost psychologist-consultantu razvivat 8 sebe to, chto A. Adler called mujestvom nesovershenstva, t.e. Umenie mujestvenno prinimat neudachu.
play a key role in family conflict relationships . Oni voznikayut iz-za neudovletvoreniya праковостей жижнов. Naibolee konfliktnymi yavlyayutsya krizisnye periody v razvitii semi. В зависи - mosti ot уровня конфликтности vydelyayutsya krisisnye, konfliktnye, problemnye i neuroticheskie semi. Family conflicts have psychotraumatic consequences: sostoyanie polnoy semeynoy neudovletvorennosti, "semeynaya trevoga", nervno-psychicheskoe napryazhenie, sostoyanie viny. Spetsialistami vyrabotany rekomendatsii po regulirovaniyu sprujeskikh konfliktov.
2. Conflicts in parenting and detmi voznikayut izza destructivnosti vnutrisemeynykh atnoshenii, lack of family and family upbringing, adult crisis children, individual-psychological idiosyncrasies. Beskonfliktnomu obshcheniyu roditeley s detmi sposobstvuet povyshenie pedagogicheskoy kultury roditeley, organization semi na kollektivnykh nachalakh, podkreplenie slovesnyx trebovaniy organizatsiey vospitaniya, interesom roditeley k vnutrennemu miru detey.
3. Sushchnost psychologicheskogo konsultirovaniya konfliktnykh semey zaklyuchaetsya v vyrabotke spetsialnykh rekomendatsiy po izmeneniyu neblagopriyatnyx psychologicheskikh factorov, zatrudnyayushchix funktsionirovanie semi i soz - dyushchix v ney konfliktnye atnoshenia.