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an

outsider might end up in control of the group's major asset. He reported the



offer to the trustees and they were very happy, but they could not

understand

Bill's conclusion and dismay. They pointed out authors very seldom publish

their


own works, a well-known fact. The meeting ended with no conclusion. Hank

Parkhurst asked Bill, "Why do we bother with those trustees, they have not

raised a cent and they are not going to, either. Let's put this proposed

book on


a business basis and form a stock company. We'll sell shares to our own

folks."


Still, the trustees were skeptical, so Bill went back to see Exman who

agreed


the membership should print its own book. The New York Group and Dr. Bob

agreed


but the rest of the Akron Group was skeptical.
Hank worked out a prospectus for the new publishing company, which they

called


"The 100 Men Corporation." They would offer 600 shares for sale at $25 par

value


[$25 for each share]. Hank went down to a stationary store, bought blank

stock


certificates, typed in his full name, followed by the title "President." The

name of the publishing company was "Works Publishing Co.," but the

corporation

was not registered until several years later. Hank and Bill were each to

keep

200 shares for their work on the book, the balance of the 200 shares would



be

sold for $25 per share. This would raise the $5,000 needed to publish the

book.

Hank button-holed every member in New York, persuading and brow beating them



one-by-one, while Bill followed him around trying to smooth things over, but

with all their expertise they still could not sell the certificates.


Then Hank had another idea: Why not get a magazine to do an article about

the


book and the group? Dr. Silkworth was renting a house from the

publisher-owner

of the Reader's Digest, a Mr. Williams. Every month Dr. Silkworth sent his

rent


to Mr. Walters, who was president of the magazine -- which had a circulation

of

12 million readers at that time. So Bill and Hank prevailed upon Dr.



Silkworth

to send copies of the first two chapters of the Big Book to Walters with a

recommendation of the new organization and its founders. That is how they

got in


touch with Kenneth Payne, the managing editor of the Reader's Digest. So

Bill


and Hank sped off to see Payne, who seemed quite interested -- and assured

them


the magazine would want to run an article when the book was ready to hit the

streets.
Now they had some real ammunition to drum up support for the book, something

to

really sink their teeth into. Now the former doubters began to sign up --



but

nearly everyone was broke, so they offered the stock on the installment

plan, $5

a month for five months. Most could only afford a single share. When the

trustees were informed of the good luck, they signed up, too. Dr. Silkworth

and


Dr. Tiebout pitched in, and a few of Bill's Wall Street friends chipped in a

little. Charles Towns loaned them $2,500. But he would not buy stock, he

wanted

a note for security! Eventually, the 200 shares were sold. Finally, the



subscribers felt they would eventually get their money back, so everyone got

behind the deal. Bill began writing the remainder of the book, making notes

on

legal pads, and dictating to Ruth Hock in the little office room 601 at 17



William Street.
With the writing of the Chapter to the Agnostic and How it Works the fight

in

New York was on. Bill favored writing a spiritual book that was filled with



references to God. Hank Parkhurst led the fight along with another new comer

named Jimmy Burwell, to keep the book psychological in nature and no

religion.

Fitz and the Akron members also favored a spiritual book. The fight almost

broke

up the little fledging fellowship and Bill eventually compromised including



such

expressions as "higher power" and God "as we understood him" in the book.

Several of the steps were re-written in the process. The original version of

the


Twelve Steps is shown below:
1. We admitted we were powerless over alcohol - that our lives had become

unmanageable.

2. Came to believe that God could restore us to sanity.

3. Made a decision to turn our wills and our lives over to the care and

direction of God.

4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

5. Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature

of

our wrongs.



6. Were entirely willing that God remove all these defects of character.

7. Humbly on our knees asked Him to remove these shortcomings - holding back

nothing.

8. Made a complete list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to

make

amends to them all.



9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so

would injure them or others.

10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly

admitted it.

11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our contact with God,

praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that

out.

12. Having had a spiritual experience as the result of this course of



action, we

tried to carry this message to others, especially alcoholics, and to

practice

these principles in all our affairs.


In January of 1939 the first draft of the Big Book was complete. Four

hundred


multilith copies were produced and distributed to the shareholders and

interested parties for review. One of those to review the book was

reportedly

the "Chief Psychiatrist of NJ" "Dr. Howard" from Montclair, New Jersey who

suggested softening the tone of the book to make it appear more suggestive.

Dr.


"Howard" is considered to be an alias and may have actually been Dr. Marcus

A.

Curry, Chief at the NJ State Asylum for the Insane at Greystone Park during



the

years 1936-40.


In April of 1939 the Big Book is published with the name "Alcoholics

Anonymous"

Bill had credited a New York member (and psychiatric patient) Joe W with the

name.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


Message 5833 from

Jun 26, 2009


Re: Big Book pg 163 who is the AA member, the 2 psychiatrists, and the

hospitals?


Dr. "Howard" is thought to be an alias. He may have been Dr. Marcus Curry,

head


of Greystone in 1939.
--- In AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com,

"Lee Carroll" wrote:

>

> The AA member was Hank Parkhurst - he was living in Montclair NJ at the



time.

>

> Prominent psychiatrist was Dr Howard of Montclair, NJ



>

> Second psychiatrist was Dr Russell E. Blaisdell, Rockland State Hospital

> near Orangeburg NY.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
[Jared L. suggested that "Dr. Howard" might

have been Dr. Howard W. S. Potter]


Message 5834 from Jared L.
Re: Big Book pg 163 who is the AA member, the

2 psychiatrists, and the hospitals?


Marcus Curry would fit for "Chief Psychiatrist of the State of NJ" -- more

or

less -- but there's the possibility (given the "Dr. Howard") that it might



be

Dr. Howard W. S. Potter (1892-1984), of New York (Letchworth Village), a

native-born Jerseyan (Elizabeth, I think) -- tho' I don't know where he was

living in 1939. Perhaps someone could check the MS of Howard Potter's

reminiscences in the Columbia Medical Library.
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++++Message 6031. . . . . . . . . . . . new Carl Jung book

From: diazeztone . . . . . . . . . . . . 9/20/2009 1:14:00 AM


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new Carl Jung book
September 20, 2009 The Holy Grail of the

Unconscious By SARA CORBET


really not directly AA related but might be

of interest to those in this group


http://www.nytimes.com/2009/09/20/magazine/20jung-t.html
LD Pierce

aabibliography.com


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++++Message 6032. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Who suffered from grave

emotional and mental disorders?

From: Jon Markle . . . . . . . . . . . . 9/20/2009 1:53:00 PM
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Psychiatric "labels" back then were not bandied about with such

abandonment as they are today. In fact, there was little known about

such "diagnostic terms" back then. Certainly, any labels used in AA

literature meant something very different than they do, clinically,

today. So, even if there were such applications to Bill W, they would

not mean the same thing as they do today. Notwithstanding there were

problems of a mental and emotional nature, we need to be very careful

when discussing such labels back that far . . . not just in AA, but in

all circumstances. We do a great disservice to people when we try to

attach to them such labels.


History should deal only with facts, not suppositions or assumptions.
Jon Markle/MA

Retired Therapist & SA Counseling

Dual Diagnosis/COD speciality

HS Practitioner, Advisor & Case Consultations

Raleigh, NC
[my opinions are my own, obviously and this post may not be

copied, duplicated, referred to or otherwise used in any publication,

paper or electronic, or digital, for any reason by any person without

my written permission.]


On Sep 20, 2009, at 1:06 PM, glennccc wrote:
> That there was much more wrong with him, in

> other words, than just being an alcoholic?

> Some kind of psychiatric problem which competent

> psychiatrists had put a name on, where he had

> been officially diagnosed as being schizophrenic,

> manic depressive, a psychopath, or something

> else of that sort?
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++++Message 6033. . . . . . . . . . . . RE: Harry Emerson Fosdick

From: jenny andrews . . . . . . . . . . . . 9/12/2009 4:20:00 AM


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Episcopalian minister and Oxford Grouper Sam Shoemaker compared AA to

Christianity in "Those 12 Steps as I understand them" (Grapevine, January

1964).

"His (Shoemaker's) teaching provided most of the principles embodied in our



12

Steps..." (Grapevine, March 1973). Then there was Fulton Oursler, journalist

and

novelist ("The Greatest Story Ever Told"). Of the Bible he wrote, "In this



one

book (actually 66 books) are the two most interesting personalities in the

whole

world - God and yourself. The Bible is the story of God and man (sic), a



love

story in which you and I must write our own ending, our unfinished

autobiography

of the creature and the Creator." And, "Many of us crucify ourselves between

two

thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future." Oursler was in London



to

interview the archbishop of Canterbury when his wife, Grace O, convened the

first known meeting of AA in Britain in her room at the swanky Dorchester

Hotel,


in Park Lane on March 31, 1947.
But let's not forget that from early days, despite its genesis in first

century


Christianity, AA was reaching out to those of other faiths or no faith: "By

personal religious affiliation we include Catholics, Protestants, Jews,

Hindus

and a sprinkling of Moslems and Buddhists..." (Foreword to Big Book second



edition, 1955).
Laurie A.
- - - -
From: Baileygc23@aol.com (Baileygc23 at aol.com)
People keep trying to tie AA to religion, but AA says there is no dogma.

Bill W


warned that others are sensitive to aggression in the name of spirituality.
As Bill W. said, "A new comer may ask, certainly there is something I must

believe or do."


Bill added, " We cheerfully reply that in AA there are no musts."

Of course, our steps are only suggestions. There is one imperative, Bill W

said, "Particularly was it imperative to work with others." But like

everything else he wrote in the big book, that was only a suggested

imperative.
- - - -
Original message from ArtSheehan@msn.com

(ArtSheehan at msn.com)


There is a phenomenon in AA where a number

of members after sobering up engage in

reading religious material and/or return

to church services and get the notion that

clergy members and religions have principles

that are "a lot like AA" when it is very

much the other way around. In terms of

primacy, AA's so-called "12 step approach"

(which began as a "6 step approach")
[see http://hindsfoot.org/steps6.html]
was likely spiritually in sync with Harry

Emerson Fosdick and other influential

Christian clergy members (such as Sam

Shoemaker) rather than the other way

around ....
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++++Message 6034. . . . . . . . . . . . Blevins, Evangelical Roots of the

Twelve Steps

From: diazeztone . . . . . . . . . . . . 9/16/2009 12:14:00 PM
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"We Were Powerless: Addiction, the Will, and

the Evangelical Roots of the Twelve Steps"


By John Blevins

Assistant Professor of Pastoral Care

Emory University, Atlanta, Georgia

(john.blevins at emory.edu)


September 15, 2009
http://www.religiondispatches.org/archive/scienceenvironment/1789/we_were_po

werl\
ess:_addiction,_the_will,_and_the_evangelical_roots_of_the_twelve_steps [22]


There are some things in this article that

seem worthy of comment.


LD Pierce

aabibliography.com


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++++Message 6035. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Defects vs shortcomings

From: allan_gengler . . . . . . . . . . . . 9/19/2009 12:47:00 PM


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I'm not sure if it's authoritative, but it's

mentioned in the preface of "Drop The Rock"

by Bill P.
-- Al
- - - -
From: John Barton

(jax760 at yahoo.com)


I've never seen that in print. Joe & Charlie

quote Nell Wing as having said that so maybe

GTHBT should be checked?
Regards
- - - -
--- In AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com,

"Lee Carroll" wrote:

>

> I thought I had seen, years ago, somewhere in



> print, an alleged comment by Bill W. that when

> asked what was the difference between character

> defects and shortcomings between step 6 and 7,

> that he replied "I didn't mean any difference,

> I just didn't want to repeat myself using the

> same word twice, I didn't think that was good

> writing," or something to that effect.

>

> I could have sworn I read it somewhere, but



> now I can't find it in "As Bill Sees It" or

> "AA Comes of Age" or "Pass It On."

>

> Can anybody give me any documentation for



> that statement that Bill W. is supposed to

> have made? A book and a page number?

>

> Lee Carroll, CPA



>

> (805) 938-1981

>
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++++Message 6036. . . . . . . . . . . . Memories from Montana in 1947

From: Cece Archer . . . . . . . . . . . . 9/21/2009 2:26:00 PM


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I was a student nurse in Missoula, Montana

1945 to 1948. Our hospital always admitted

drunks and gave them paraldehyde.
I remember Tom Kelly and Larry Lynch who were

admitted regularly to the wards. Tom K was a

local bum but something happened to him after

one of his discharges from the hospital. I

never knew what happened to Larry.
After that we would see Tom K. all dressed

up with a book under his arm going to visit

different patients in private room. I now

believe that Tom K discovered Alcoholics

Anonymous and was making 12 step calls.
I didn't recall this and put it together

until I myself found Sobriety in AA in 1973.


Just thought I would share this little bit

of history.


Cecilia Archer
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++++Message 6037. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Harry Emerson Fosdick

From: kevinr1211 . . . . . . . . . . . . 9/21/2009 4:26:00 PM


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AA, while not a Christian organization, is

based on liberal Christian thought, as was

popularly available to our founders.
(Analogy: I don't live in a Frank Lloyd Wright

house, but important elements of its design

could be attributed to the style he developed)
I'm sometimes amused by certain people,

Christian and non-Christian, with their

objections to certain AA principals because

of how those principals were originated.


I like the way AA has developed since the

early days, with an emphasis on fellowship.

Imagine if Bill and Bob had chosen a more

mystical spiritual direction with an emphasis

on a more monastic or meditative way of life

for alcoholics!


Their chosen theological strain - Shoemaker

as a great example - of the active spiritual

life saved me...
Maybe that's why Bill W. said "be quick to see

where religious people are right, make use of

what they offer."
-k.
- - - -
--- In AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com, jenny andrews

wrote:


>

> Episcopalian minister and Oxford Grouper Sam Shoemaker compared AA to

Christianity in "Those 12 Steps as I understand them" (Grapevine, January

1964).


"His (Shoemaker's) teaching provided most of the principles embodied in our

12

Steps..." (Grapevine, March 1973). Then there was Fulton Oursler, journalist



and

novelist ("The Greatest Story Ever Told"). Of the Bible he wrote, "In this

one

book (actually 66 books) are the two most interesting personalities in the



whole

world - God and yourself. The Bible is the story of God and man (sic), a

love

story in which you and I must write our own ending, our unfinished



autobiography

of the creature and the Creator." And, "Many of us crucify ourselves between

two

thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future." Oursler was in London



to

interview the archbishop of Canterbury when his wife, Grace O, convened the

first known meeting of AA in Britain in her room at the swanky Dorchester

Hotel,


in Park Lane on March 31, 1947.

>

> But let's not forget that from early days, despite its genesis in first



century Christianity, AA was reaching out to those of other faiths or no

faith:


"By personal religious affiliation we include Catholics, Protestants, Jews,

Hindus and a sprinkling of Moslems and Buddhists..." (Foreword to Big Book

second edition, 1955).

>

> Laurie A.



>

> - - - -

>

> From: Baileygc23@... (Baileygc23 at aol.com)



>

> People keep trying to tie AA to religion, but AA says there is no dogma.

Bill

W warned that others are sensitive to aggression in the name of



spirituality.

>

> As Bill W. said, "A new comer may ask, certainly there is something I must



believe or do."

>

> Bill added, " We cheerfully reply that in AA there are no musts."



> Of course, our steps are only suggestions. There is one imperative, Bill W

said, "Particularly was it imperative to work with others." But like

everything else he wrote in the big book, that was only a suggested

imperative.

>

> - - - -



>

> Original message from ArtSheehan@...

> (ArtSheehan at msn.com)

>

> There is a phenomenon in AA where a number



> of members after sobering up engage in

> reading religious material and/or return

> to church services and get the notion that

> clergy members and religions have principles

> that are "a lot like AA" when it is very

> much the other way around. In terms of

> primacy, AA's so-called "12 step approach"

> (which began as a "6 step approach")

>

> [see http://hindsfoot.org/steps6.html]



>

> was likely spiritually in sync with Harry

> Emerson Fosdick and other influential

> Christian clergy members (such as Sam

> Shoemaker) rather than the other way

> around ....

>
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++++Message 6038. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Who suffered from grave

emotional and mental disorders?

From: Kimball ROWE . . . . . . . . . . . . 9/21/2009 5:09:00 PM
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From Kimball Rowe and Anders (Gothenburg, Sweden)
Responding to the original message from Jon Markle

(serenitylodge at mac.com)

which said "back then .... any labels used in AA

literature meant something very different than

they do, clinically, today .... Notwithstanding

there were problems of a mental and emotional

nature, we need to be very careful when discussing

such labels" in terms of modern diagnostic terms.
"Kimball ROWE" (roweke at msn.com)

made this comment:


Your observation and blanket statement would

apply not only to diagnostic terminolgy (pre-DSM)

and clinical settings, but would also apply to

every term throughout the Big Book of Alcoholics

Anonymous .... when it comes to emotional and

mental disorders, it would be wise to stick with

just those described by the Big Book itself and

not apply this generation's classification

systems on the environment of the 30s.
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Additional comments from: "serenityodaat"

(agbystrom at gmail.com)
Hi group!
Could it not be that some of the "grave

emotional and mental disorders" that the

begining of chapter 5 talks about comes from

the alcoholics real underlying problem - the

hard core egoic entity? "The self will run riot"

talked about later in the book.


When I came to AA alot of people laughed when

those lines from chapter 5 were read at the

begining of the meeting. I never understood why

they did that. Until I had written my own 4th

step and started on my amends process ... Then

I started to laugh too.


I think those lines are connected to the

"bedevilments" found in chapter 4, page 52:

"We were having trouble with personal

relationships, we couldn't control our

emotional natures, we were a prey to

misery and depression, we couldn't make a

living, we had a feeling of uselessness, we

were full of fear, we were unhappy, we couldn't

seem to be of real help to other people." This

is why I drank, and kept drinking beyond the

point when I didn't wanna drink any more. My

mind told me that alcohol was a legitimate

solution to those bedevilments, and it felt

true too. Now if that isn't grave emotional

and mental disorder, I dont know what is!
Of course, of course, there are a lot of other

disorders that an alcoholic can suffer from,

but just as Dr. Tiebout reported in his articles

that once his patients had been subjected to

the AA program, i.e. their alcoholism was

treated, they were avaliable to his therapy.


When I came to AA i had suffered from depression,

paranoia and panic attacks for years, for as

long as I can remember. I have been free of

those for years now.


Thats my take on it =)
Anders

Gothenburg, Sweden


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++++Message 6039. . . . . . . . . . . . The Time recovery Machine ... new

play in the works

From: egojames007@aol.com . . . . . . . . . . . . 9/23/2009 2:48:00 AM
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Anyone interested in writing for a 2-man play?

Bill W. meets a man from the future who has

magically been sent via time machine to him

prior to his interaction with Ebby, and the

fellow is a big fan of Bill W's and is

startled to see Bill W at his sickest, and the

things that Bill thought he still had power over

and the things he thought he could still manage.

The Stranger actually will work with Bill about

the symptoms and then work with him about the

solution -- the solution from the big Book.
It will be a comedy -- no budget -- a 2-man

play done to raise money for homeless addicts

and alcoholics in the Long Beach area. A

non-fellowship play -- just a way to carry the

message while raising money. It will be

performed by 2 actors already chosen.


Email me at

(egojames007 at aol.com)

if you're interested in writing scenes.


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++++Message 6040. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Defects vs shortcomings

From: hdmozart . . . . . . . . . . . . 9/21/2009 4:22:00 PM


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GRAPEVINE ARTICLE:
http://www.aagrapevine.org/da/article.php?id=39321&tb=3ZGE9cSUzQWp1bHkrMTk3N

yZwZ\
z01 [23]


AA Grapevine - July 1977 Vol. 34 No. 2

Word-worriers


Members of our Fellowship are prone to spend hours of meeting time debating

the


precise meaning of words in the Steps and Traditions.

When co-founder Bill W. was asked why he said "defects of character" in Step

Six

and "shortcomings" in Step Seven, he replied: "I just didn't want to use the



same word twice."
AAHL MESSAGE 2559:
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AAHistoryLovers/message/2559
* From the 1968 General Service Conference "Ask It Basket"

Question: What is the difference between "Character Defects" and

"Shortcomings"?

Answer: A Staff Member said that she asked this question of Bill some years

ago.

Quite simply, he said he didn't want to use the same word twice. He intended



the

two terms to mean the same thing.


* From the 1977 General Service Conference "Ask It Basket"

Question: Could we republish the quotation from Bill W concerning the

difference, or lack of difference, between "defects" and "shortcomings" in

the


Steps?

Answer: Some years ago, we received many letters asking the difference

between

these terms. Bill said he did not want to use the same word twice.


[Both of the GSC documents are available on the web]
* Also contains a note from 'merton' that a letter was discovered in the GSO

archives written by Bill - "As if by magic the computer revealed a letter by

Bill saying that the meaning was intended to be synonomous and that the

different words were merely semantic for literary flow"


- - - -
From: "bxdennis"

(bxdennis at verizon.net)


I asked this question of Frank M., GSO Archivist,

in the early '90's and received a written reply

that is very similar to what you have written

here, Lee. That Bill had said that he simply

wanted to use another word and not alter the

meaning.
Frank said that the question was posed in an

"Ask It Basket" session at one of the General

Service Conferences. Frank told me that it

was a regular feature of Conferences while

Bill was alive and attending to allow conference

delegates to pose questions for Bill to answer.
I might also mention that in the book,

Alcoholics Anonymous, Chapter 6, Into Action

(p. 76), the seventh step prayer includes the

sentence: "I pray that you now remove from me

every single defect of character" which was

proof enough for me that shortcomings were the

same as defects of character. But some doubters

around here needed Bill's answer and I was

delighted to get the archival information.
Sorry but my files are not accessible to me

right now to search for the letter but perhaps

someone has a record of the Ask-It Basket Q & A.
Dennis M.
- - - -
From: "planternva2000"

(james.scarpine at verizon.net)


From page 22 of "A New Pair of Glasses":
<<....and there've been a million hours spent on

"What's the difference between 'shortcomings'

and 'defects of character'?" There's supposed to

be a difference! I asked Bill, and he said,

"I don't know, I think I didn't want to end

two lines right next to each other with the

same words. They mean the same thing." So that's

going to knock a lot of arguments out, isn't it?>>


Jim S.
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From: "kurtzern"

(kurtzern at umich.edu)


I recall seeing this expression in several of

Bill's letters when I examined them back in the

1970s. I am pretty sure there are precise notes

in Not-God. Bill was writing to people who

inquired about the apparent distinction, often

proposing some very imaginative interpretations.

I understand that the archives are in the

process of digitizing all that material, so a

query to the archivist may be helpful.
ernie kurtz
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++++Message 6041. . . . . . . . . . . . Source of Poem

From: Tom Hickcox . . . . . . . . . . . . 9/28/2009 5:24:00 PM


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I have a mid-forties vintage A.A. book with a poem inscribed in the

front and I am curious about the source of the poem. It goes:


We thank Thee our Father

for the privilege of meeting

again with men and women

who have a common problem

and help us to realize that

thru Thine help can we

hope to achieve understanding

of a better way of life

thru Jesus Christ
The name written on the opposite page is Red Settles.
I would appreciate any information on either the poem or the person.
Tommy H in Baton Rouge
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++++Message 6042. . . . . . . . . . . . How To Listen To God by John E.

Batterson

From: mrpetesplace . . . . . . . . . . . . 9/27/2009 9:14:00 PM
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Hey buffs. I've found the text on this in my search engine at aastuff.com

however, none of the sites post the original date it was first published.

I've

only found dates when it was reprinted in Wally Paton's book of the same



title.

I believe it was a little booklet or pamphlet like "sharing", "the guidance

of

God", etc. I would like to find the actual date it was first printed.


Thank you in advance.
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++++Message 6043. . . . . . . . . . . . Bill''s story: investigator for a

surety company?

From: Lois Stevens . . . . . . . . . . . . 9/27/2009 11:04:00 PM
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Does anyone know the name of the surety company

which Bill W. worked for when he was c. 22 years

old, right after the First World War?
Big Book page 2:
"I took a night law course, and obtained

employment as investigator for a surety company

.... My work took me about Wall Street and

little by little I became interested in the

market."
Thank you.
A grateful member
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From the moderator: What a Surety Bond Is
http://www.sio.org/html/suretiesare.html
Contract surety bonds guarantee the performance or financial obligations of

others. In construction, contract surety bonds are provided to an obligee

(for

example, the construction project owner) by licensed surety companies that



commit their assets to support the performance and financial obligations of

the


principal (typically the contractor). General contractors frequently also

act as


the obligee in the case of bonds provided by subcontractors. Surety bonds

used


in construction include bid, performance, and payment bonds as well as

supply


and maintenance bonds. Construction owners, contractors, lenders, public

officials, and others involved in the construction project need to know

about

the companies that issue surety bonds and the role of the surety bond



producer.
What is a Surety Company?
Most large property and casualty insurance companies have surety

departments. In

addition, there are some insurance companies for which surety bonds make up

all


or most of their business. In either case, in order for a company to write a

surety bond in the United States, it must be licensed by the insurance

department of one or more states in which the surety conducts business.
The surety company’s thorough prequalification process greatly reduces the

likelihood of contractor default. The surety company underwriter takes an

in-depth look at the contractor’s entire business operations – credit

history


and financial strength, experience, equipment, work in progress, and

management

capability – and must be satisfied that the contractor is capable of

completing

the project before issuing a bond. Should the contractor experience

difficulties

on a project, the surety company may elect to assist the contractor to head

off


default. In many cases, the owner may not even be aware of the surety’s

involvement.


In the unfortunate event that the owner declares the contractor in default,

the


surety must investigate the claim, analyze all options, and choose a course

of

action. If the contractor is in a default situation, the surety may finance



the

original contractor or provide support to ensure project completion, arrange

for

a new contractor to complete the project, rebid the job, or pay the cost of



completion up to the penal sum of the bond, depending on the options in the

particular bond form.


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++++Message 6044. . . . . . . . . . . . Origins of the Seventh Step Prayer

From: jaynebirch55 . . . . . . . . . . . . 9/30/2009 4:00:00 PM


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Did Bill W. write the Seventh Step Prayer or

was it taken from an outside source?


Big Book page 76
"My Creator, I am now willing that you should

have all of me, good and bad. I pray that you

now remove from me every single defect of

character which stands in the way of my

usefulness to you and my fellows. Grant me

strength, as I go out from here, to do your

bidding. Amen."
Thanks Jayne x x

Barking Big Book study x


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++++Message 6045. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Bill''s story: investigator for

a surety company?

From: Rick Benchoff . . . . . . . . . . . . 10/1/2009 3:57:00 PM
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From this web site:
http://www.silkworth.net/aafiles/timelines_public.html
Late summer 1921: Bill W found work as a fraud

and embezzlement investigator for the US Fidelity

and Guarantee Co, and got his first glimpse of

Wall St.
Shortly after going to work at USF&G, he received

an employment invitation from Thomas Edison but

decided instead to stay around Wall St. (PIO 64,

BW-RT 121-123, BW-FH 31)
Be well,
Rick Benchoff

Hagerstown, Maryland


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Original message from: Lois Stevens
Does anyone know the name of the surety company

which Bill W. worked for when he was c. 22 years

old, right after the First World War?
Big Book page 2:
"I took a night law course, and obtained

employment as investigator for a surety company

.... My work took me about Wall Street and

little by little I became interested in the

market."
Thank you.
A grateful member
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++++Message 6046. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Differences in Multilith Copies

of Original Manuscript?

From: Lauren Lukens . . . . . . . . . . . . 10/2/2009 3:53:00 PM
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Found your e-mail that I had saved - just got

the copies from my bank box so I can give a

talk in a week or so and my manuscript does NOT

have an apostrophe, but does have the two title

pages.
Mom's note with it says that it "appears to

have been about half way through the 50 of so

she typed."
Hope this helps.
Laurie
--- On Fri, 9/7/07, schaberg43 wrote:
From: schaberg43

Subject: [AAHistoryLovers] Differences in Multilith Copies of Original

Manuscript?

To: AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com

Date: Friday, September 7, 2007, 3:02 PM
I have recently been traveling around the

country looking at copies of the Original

Manuscript - the multilith printing that was

made and circulated for comments before our

Big Book was first published in April of

1939.
As has been noted before, there are TWO

versions of the title page to this printing.

Although everything else in these copies

'seems' to be identical: one version has a

title page reading "Alcoholics Anonymous"

and the other adds an incorrect apostrophe,

as in "Alcoholic's Anonymous."


In the past few months, I've been able to

inspect seven copies of the Original Manuscript

- two of which did not have the apostrophe

and five of which that did.


Now here's what I found to be interesting.
In all of the copies that I have so far seen

without an apostrophe in the title, there are

two extra "Index" pages that are not found

in the copies that do have an apostrophe.


Maybe there were different printings or,

perhaps, just different collations and bindings

done for these multilith copies - but there

seems to be uniform differences between these

two "issues" of the Original Manuscript.
So, here's my question:
DO ANY OF THE FOLKS ON THE AAHISTORYLOVERS

BOARD OWN OR HAVE ACCESS TO A MULTILITH COPY

OF THE ORIGINAL MANUSCRIPT THAT THEY COULD

INSPECT TO EITHER CONFIRM OR DENY THIS

COINCIDENCE OF THE APOSTROPHE AND THE INDEX

PAGES?
NOTE:

No apostrophe copies consulted: 1 in NYC AA

Archive, my own (Jim Burwell) copy


Apostrophe copies consulted: 2 in NYC AA Archive,

Sotheby's 06/07, a copy I sold in 02/07,

a private collection in CA.
Thanks,
Old Bill
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++++Message 6047. . . . . . . . . . . . Another Prayer

From: Tom Hickcox . . . . . . . . . . . . 10/2/2009 12:42:00 AM


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I came across another prayer in a mid-40s pamphlet and am wondering

if anyone can enlighten me as to its origin.


God bless this meeting and the members gathered here today. Help us

to make this club a haven of strength and comfort, giving to all who

seek help here, the beauty and friendliness of home -- which shall be

as a shield against temptation of all kinds -- and against loneliness

and despair. Bless those who are going forth from this house to

fight a gallant fight, to know suffering: and bless those who come

here to rest. Those who must re-adjust themselves to face life once more.
For Jesus' sake.
Tommy H in Baton Rouge
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++++Message 6048. . . . . . . . . . . . New film on alcoholism in France: Le

dernier pour la route

From: Glenn Chesnut . . . . . . . . . . . . 10/3/2009 4:47:00 PM
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Sent in by Fiona D.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2009/sep/27/film-france-drinking-problem
The posters, on hoardings across France, show a slightly dishevelled media

executive in his 50s, on a jetty, a bag in his hand, a Swiss lake behind,

staring with vacant, battered, tired eyes into the middle distance.
He is an unlikely hero, but Hervé Chabalier, author of the book "One for

the


Road" (Le dernier pour la route), was being lauded by French journalists

last


week after a film based on his battle with alcoholism came out to critical

acclaim. "Truthful, clear and sober," said the Nouvel Observateur weekly

magazine. A story that is "profoundly human", said the mass-circulation

daily


Ouest-France.
But the film, in which Chabalier is played by François Cluzet, has gone

beyond


simple entertainment, provoking an unprecedented debate on alcoholism, long

a

taboo subject in France.


Chabalier, 67, founder of the press agency Capa and a renowned foreign

correspondent, has not drunk for seven years since the treatment for

alcoholism

on which the film is based. He said that there was "denial" of the problem

in

his native land.


"Everywhere you are pushed to drink. It is a very strong social symbol. For

having fun, for crying, there is alcohol. It is part of France. But the

moment

it goes too far, then you are cast out," he told the Observer. "People don't



want to talk about it or recognise it."
Though the French are often seen, and see themselves, as a nation of

moderate


drinkers, certainly compared with Britons, statistics reveal similar levels

of

alcohol consumption and dependence. According to Inserm, a French public



health

research centre, five million French people have medical, psychological or

social problems linked to alcohol abuse and at least two million are

dependent

â“ levels comparable with anywhere in Europe.
"National stereotypes strongly affect how alcoholism is viewed," said Dr

Philippe Batel, a practising psychiatrist in Paris and an author. "Here we

see

our own alcohol consumption as part of our culture of l'art de vivre, of our



history as a wine-producing country, and as part of our treasured

gastronomy. We

look at drinking in Britain and see a simple desire to get drunk.
"But in fact these cultural models are totally false. In the UK, alcoholism

is

more visible. In France, it stays hidden. But the levels are the same."


The new film is also about alcoholism as an illness, not a social problem,

Chabalier says. One of the reasons he wanted to tell his story was that it

is

"so typical".


"We have an idea of the alcoholic as the smelly guy in the gutter. But I've

had


a very successful life professionally. I could go to work and spend a day in

a

state of semi-permanent inebriation without difficulty. Alcoholics are very



good

at hiding things. It was only at the end that things got out of hand."


His book, which sold 150,000 copies, was written from notes taken during his

stay in a Swiss clinic.


"I jotted things down to remember them to help me when I had left, and that

became a diary which became the book. I had a huge response. People were

writing

to me saying that now they could talk about their illness with their wives



or

husbands.


"Alcoholics think they can deal with their problem themselves but they

can't.


They need to get help."
According to the French Observatory on Drugs and Drugs Addiction, the

proportion

of French adults having or having had a problem with alcohol use has been

stable


since the early 1990s and in terms of overall consumption the French drink

around 10% more units of alcohol each year than the British. Those most at

risk

of alcoholism were men in managerial jobs aged between 45 and 60. One



phenomenon

increasingly visible in France, especially among young people, is

"binge-drinking", though it is remains a relatively minor problem.

Last year an attempt by the government to ban clubs and bars from offering

evenings of unlimited drinks on payment of a fixed ticket price provoked a

revolt from wine-makers, who said it would mean the end of wine-tasting

events

and accused the government of "undermining our national heritage".


France, like Norway, already has a total ban on all alcohol advertising on

television and billboards. Recently the issue of internet advertising has

provoked new arguments.
The fight against alcoholism in France has a long history. A report in the

New


York Times told readers of a congress held in Paris "to deliberate upon

means to


eradicate the evil of excessive alcohol consumption in the republic".
"Eminent men of letters and clergy of various denominations [were] joining

hands


in a fight against the common foe," the newspaper's reporter said. The date

was


24 January 1904.
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++++Message 6049. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: How To Listen To God by John E.

Batterson

From: glennccc . . . . . . . . . . . . 10/4/2009 2:48:00 PM
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http://www.aabacktobasics.org/B2BArticles.html

says that:


"With the roots of AA in the Oxford Group,

John E. Batterson in 1939 wrote a short guide,

'How to Listen to God.'"

_______________________________


http://www.gentle-stress-relief.com/stress-relief-resources.html

also talks about the work:


"How to Listen to God: This is a 3 page pamphlet

written in the 1930's by John E. Batterson.

John was a person friend of Dr. Bob, one of

the co founders of Alcoholics Anonymous. This

pamphlet was widely used and distributed in the

early, very successful years of A.A.

_______________________________
http://spiritualsteps.com/2007/3page.pdf

gives the same information:


"This Oxford Group Pamphlet was written in the

1930's. John E. Batterson was a personal

friend of Dr Bob, AA Co-Founder."

_______________________________


Does anyone have any more information on

the man? He is sometimes referred to as a

"Chaplain." Can the statement that he was "a

personal friend" of Dr. Bob's be verified?

Was he part of the Akron Oxford Group?
Glenn C. (South Bend, Indiana)
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Ernest Kurtz

(kurtzern at umich.edu) sent in two

additional references to the work:
http://www.aabibliography.com/howtolistengod.htm
http://www.aabacktobasics.org/How2Listen2Godpgm.html
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--- In AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com, "mrpetesplace"
wrote:

>

> Hey buffs. I've found the text on this in my search engine at aastuff.com



however, none of the sites post the original date it was first published.

I've


only found dates when it was reprinted in Wally Paton's book of the same

title.


I believe it was a little booklet or pamphlet like "sharing", "the guidance

of

God", etc. I would like to find the actual date it was first printed.



>

> Thank you in advance.

>
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++++Message 6050. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: How To Listen To God by John E.

Batterson

From: corafinch . . . . . . . . . . . . 10/7/2009 6:51:00 PM
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I found him in some newspaper articles. In

August, 1934 there was a Oxford Group program

in Sandusky, Ohio, about 60 miles west of

Cleveland. One of the speakers was "John

Batterson of Delaware, college student."

Actually he seems to have grown up in Ohio

(not sure about this), so maybe he was in

school in Delaware. Several of the other

speakers were from Akron. So it certainly

makes sense that he would have been a friend

of Dr. Bob.
In 1942, the Rev. John Batterson was pastor of

the Methodist church in Middletown, New York.

In 1948 he was occasionally preaching at the

Union Protestant church in Herald Harbor,

Maryland, but his primary position was Chaplain

at Fort Meade. As Second Army Chaplain, Major

John E. Batterson spoke at a training conference

for chaplains in the Army Reserve and National

Guard, in Charleston West Virginia in April

1950.
Cora


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Message 6049

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AAHistoryLovers/message/6049


Re: How To Listen To God by John E. Batterson
http://www.aabacktobasics.org/B2BArticles.html

says that:


"With the roots of AA in the Oxford Group,

John E. Batterson in 1939 wrote a short guide,

'How to Listen to God.'"

_______________________________


http://www.gentle-stress-relief.com/stress-relief-resources.html

also talks about the work:


"How to Listen to God: This is a 3 page pamphlet

written in the 1930's by John E. Batterson.

John was a person friend of Dr. Bob, one of

the co founders of Alcoholics Anonymous. This

pamphlet was widely used and distributed in the

early, very successful years of A.A.

_______________________________
http://spiritualsteps.com/2007/3page.pdf

gives the same information:


"This Oxford Group Pamphlet was written in the

1930's. John E. Batterson was a personal

friend of Dr Bob, AA Co-Founder."

_______________________________


Does anyone have any more information on

the man? He is sometimes referred to as a

"Chaplain." Can the statement that he was "a

personal friend" of Dr. Bob's be verified?

Was he part of the Akron Oxford Group?
Glenn C. (South Bend, Indiana)
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++++Message 6051. . . . . . . . . . . . Holding hands during the Lord''s

Prayer


From: buck030303 . . . . . . . . . . . . 10/4/2009 7:15:00 PM
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Can anyone tell me the history of holding

hands at the end of the meetings during the

Lord's Prayer? I have heard it was practiced

in the beginning of AA and also that it

evolved from 70's rehabs?
There are a lot of different views and

opinions about this practice and I have

heard many different "origins"...
Any help would be appreciated!
Thank you!
Buck from Pasadena, Maryland
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++++Message 6052. . . . . . . . . . . . Saying the Lord''s Prayer and

holding hands

From: Glenn Chesnut . . . . . . . . . . . . 10/11/2009 6:46:00 PM
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It seemed like a good time to put some of

the old messages on this topic back up on the

Message Board.
- - - -
From: "ArtSheehan"

Date: Sun Oct 23, 2005 3:53pm Subject:

RE: The Lord's Prayer, Or Not - Part 1 of 2
A Letter From Bill Wilson About The Use Of

The Lord's Prayer


April 14, 1959
Dear Russ,
Am right sorry for my delay in answering. Lois

and I were a long time out of the country and

this was followed by an attack of the marathon

type of flu that has been around here in New

York. We are okay now, however, but I did want

to explain my delay.


Now about the business of adding the Lord's

Prayer to each A.A. meeting.


This practice probably came from the Oxford

Groups who were influential in the early days

of AA. You have probably noted in AA Comes of

Age what the connection of these people in AA

really was. I think saying the Lord's Prayer

was a custom of theirs following the close of

each meeting. Therefore it quite easily got

shifted into a general custom among us.


Of course there will always be those who seem

to be offended by the introduction of any prayer

whatever into an ordinary AA gathering. Also,

it is sometimes complained that the Lord's

Prayer is a Christian document. Nevertheless

this Prayer is of such widespread use and

recognition that the arguments of its Christian

origin seems to be a little farfetched. It is

also true that most AAs believe in some kind

of God and that communication and strength is

obtainable through His grace. Since this is

the general consensus it seems only right that

at least the Serenity Prayer and the Lord's

Prayer be used in connection with our meetings.

It does not seem necessary to defer to the

feelings of our agnostic and atheist newcomers

to the extent of completely hiding our light

under a bushel.


However, around here, the leader of the meeting

usually asks those to join him in the Lord's

Prayer who feel that they would care to do so.

The worst that happens to the objectors is that

they have to listen to it. This is doubtless a

salutary exercise in tolerance at their stage

of progress.
So that's the sum of the Lord's Prayer business

as I recall it. Your letter made me wonder in

just what connection you raise the question.
Meanwhile, please know just how much Lois and

I treasure the friendship of you both. May

Providence let our paths presently cross one

of these days.


Devotedly yours,

Bill Wilson


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From: "ArtSheehan"

Date: Sun Oct 23, 2005 4:27pm Subject: RE:

The Lord's Prayer, Or Not - Part 2 of 2
In regards to "Christian" prayers at AA meetings:
As Bill Sees It, pg 293: "He can do this because

he now accepts a God who is All - and who loves

all. When he says, 'Our Father who art in heaven,

hallowed be Thy name,' he deeply and humbly means

it ...." Unfortunately, some members focus on

who wrote the Lord's Prayer instead of its content

and substance.
The Serenity Prayer as a "non-Christian" prayer:
If someone thinks the Serenity Prayer is not

a "Christian" prayer, they might want to think

again or do a bit of research. Compared to

the Lord's Prayer, the Serenity Prayer is just

as, actually more, "Christian" in its full

version (we only say the first part):


"God grant me the serenity to accept the things

I cannot change, courage to change the things

I can, and wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time, enjoying one moment

at a time. Accepting hardship as a pathway to

peace. Taking, as Jesus did, this sinful world

as it is, not as I would have it. Trusting that

You will make all things right if I surrender

to Your will. So that I may be reasonably happy

in this life and supremely happy with You in

the next."


Some unfortunately alter the wording of the

prayer from "as Jesus did" to "as He did".


References to so-called "Christian" prayers

appear throughout AA literature. The term

"Thy will be done" is from the Lord's Prayer

(i.e. "Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done"

from the book of Matthew). The book of James

is the source of the term "Faith without works

is dead."
Big Book references:
Pgs 67 and 88: "Thy will be done"

Pg 85: "Thy will (not mine) be done"

Pgs 14, 76 and 88: "Faith without works is dead"
Pg 87: "If not members of religious bodies, we

sometimes select and memorize a few set prayers

which emphasize the principles we have been

discussing. There are many helpful books also.

Suggestions about these may be obtained from

one's priest, minister, or rabbi. Be quick to

see where religious people are right. Make use

of what they offer."


12&12 References:
Pg 32: "Thy will be done"

Pgs 41, 102, 103: "Thy will, not mine, be done"


The 12&12 and AA Comes of Age also contain the

so-called "11th Step Prayer." Its actual title

is the "Peace Prayer of Saint Francis" (a

Christian Saint). It was Bill W's favorite prayer.

However, St Francis didn't write it (according

to Franciscan web site). But it is a beautiful

[and in its origins a Christian] prayer.
Extracts from Bill W's 1960 talk to the National

Clergy Conference on Alcoholism


"... Every thoughtful AA realizes that the

divine grace, which has always flowed through

the Church, is the ultimate foundation on

which AA rests. Our spiritual origins are

Christian."
[Later in the talk]
"If these misgivings had real substance, they

would be serious indeed. But, as I have already

indicated, Alcoholics Anonymous cannot in the

least be regarded as a new religion. Our Twelve

Steps have no theological content, except that

which speaks of "God as we understand Him."

This means that each individual AA member may

define God according to whatever faith or

creed he may have. Therefore there isn't the

slightest interference with the religious views

of any of our membership. The rest of the

Twelve Steps define moral attitudes and helpful

practices, all of them precisely Christian in

character. Therefore, as far as they go, the

Steps are good Christianity; indeed they are

good Catholicism, something which Catholic writers

have affirmed more than once."
General Service Conference Advisory Actions:
1952: "all Conference sessions are to open

with the Serenity Prayer and close with the

Lord's Prayer"
1954: "the General Service Conference will

end with the recitation of the Lord's Prayer"


1975: "convention meetings will open with

the Serenity Prayer and close with the Lord's

Prayer"
The AA Group Pamphlet Pg 16:
"whether open or closed, AA group meetings are

conducted by AA members, who determine the

format of their meetings. [Pg 19] many meetings

close with members reciting the Lord's Prayer

or the Serenity Prayer."
Epilogue
All references to so-called "Christian" prayers

in Conference-approved literature and meetings

do not in any way imply affiliation with, or

endorsement of, any religion.


Cheers

Arthur
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From Glenn C. (South Bend, Indiana)
When the AA people met at Dr. Bob and Anne's house,

they finished by reciting the Lord's Prayer. See

Doctor Bob and the Good Oldtimers pp. 141 and 148,

also 261 (Clarence Snyder's AA meetings in Cleveland)

and 183.
This made good sense, in terms of their emphasis

on the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5-7), since

the Lord's Prayer is taken from the middle of

that work (Matthew 6:9-13).


- - - -
Message #2247

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AAHistoryLovers/message/2247

From Jim Blair

(jblair@videotron.ca)


The question of holding hands I have looked

into and it appears that at the International

in Toronto in 1965, the attendees were asked

to hold hands and join together as the

"Responsibility Declaration" was read for

the first time. Older members seen to recollect

that "hand holding" grew out of the Toronto

experience.


- - - -
Message #2248

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AAHistoryLovers/message/2248

From "Robert Stonebraker"

(rstonebraker212 at insightbb.com)


The "Lord's Prayer" carried over from the

Oxford Group and was used at the first AA

meeting that Clarence Snyder started at Abby

Golrick's home; 2345 Stillman Rd, Cleveland Hts.,

Ohio, on May 11th, 1939. For verification please

read page 261 of "Dr. Bob And The Good old Timers."


- - - -
Message #2250

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AAHistoryLovers/message/2250

"Bruce Lallier"

(brucelallier at zoominternet.net)


I first remember the holding of hands from the

early to mid 70's in Connecticut.


Message #2257

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AAHistoryLovers/message/2257

From "Robert Stonebraker"

(rstonebraker212 at insightbb.com)


I was living in Southern California [in] 1975

and the custom of holding hands was then prevalent

at most groups. However, in 1978, I moved to a

mid-sized town, Richmond, Indiana, and the

practice was not yet in vogue. But by the early

1980s most of the groups had begun holding

hands. Of course, here I am not talking about

the Responsibility Declaration, but the Lord's

Prayer.
Message #2589

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AAHistoryLovers/message/2589

From: "Mel Barger"

(melb at accesstoledo.com)


I would say that [holding hands while reciting

the Lord's Prayer] began in the mid to late

1970s and just seemed to spread throughout AA.

But there are still some stalwarts who stand

apart [when reciting the prayer] rather than

hold hands, and this is their right.


Mel Barger
[Note from moderator: Mel's personal experience

with the AA program goes back to 1950, and he

has also done a good deal of research on AA

history going back even earlier, to the first

beginnings of the movement.]
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++++Message 6053. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: How To Listen To God by John E.

Batterson

From: Tom Hickcox . . . . . . . . . . . . 10/10/2009 6:20:00 PM
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From Tom Hickcox and Jared Lobdell: "Delaware"

in this case is not the state, but a small city

(33,700 pop.) about twenty miles north of

Columbus, Ohio.


At 17:51 10/7/2009, corafinch wrote:
>I found him in some newspaper articles. In

>August, 1934 there was a Oxford Group program

>in Sandusky, Ohio, about 60 miles west of

>Cleveland. One of the speakers was "John

>Batterson of Delaware, college student."

>Actually he seems to have grown up in Ohio

>(not sure about this), so maybe he was in

>school in Delaware. Several of the other

>speakers were from Akron.
- - - -
From Tom Hickcox

(cometkazie1 at cox.net)


I would note that there is a Delaware, Ohio

located not too distant from Sandusky, about

85 mi, and there is a college there, Ohio

Wesleyan Unversity, where my brother has

taught for several decades.
Tommy H in Baton Rouge
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From: "J. Lobdell"

(jlobdell54 at hotmail.com)


Delaware is Delaware, Ohio, where John Edward

Batterson (1910-1991) attended Ohio Wesleyan

University (Class of 1935) in preparation for

the ministry. He graduated with a Bachelor's

degree in Engineering from the Ohio State

University in Columbus in 1933 (editor of the

OSU Engineer), was involved in aviation

engineering before entering the ministry, was

Chaplain (I think as Lt. Col.) at Fort Huachuca

[Arizona] in 1956 (his SS card was from Arizona)

and died at Huntsville, Alabama. I can find

no particular Akron connection up to 1935 but

I don't know where he was between 1935 and

1940.
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++++Message 6054. . . . . . . . . . . . RE: Holding hands during the Lord''s

Prayer


From: J. Lobdell . . . . . . . . . . . . 10/11/2009 9:02:00 PM
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From Jim Blair, Jared Lobdell, Bob Stonebraker,

Sherry Hartsell, and Ben Humphreys


Holding hands during a prayer started at the

AA International in Toronto in 1965, when Bill

Wilson was still around (he died in 1971),

and the practice seems to have been further

popularized after it was done at the AA

International in Denver in 1975.


So fundamentally this practice of holding

hands seems to have come straight from AA

headquarters, from the New York GSO itself.
The oldtimers who have written in, both in this

message and in Message #6052, say that they

never saw it done in ordinary local AA meetings

until the early to mid 1970's, and that it only

started to become a common practice over the

course of the 1980's.


Glenn C., Moderator, AAHistoryLovers
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From Jim Blair

(jblair@videotron.ca) in Message #2247

(repeated in Message #6052)
The question of holding hands I have looked

into and it appears that at the International

in Toronto in 1965, the attendees were asked

to hold hands and join together as the

"Responsibility Declaration" was read for

the first time. Older members seen to recollect

that "hand holding" grew out of the Toronto

experience.


- - - -
From: "J. Lobdell"

(jlobdell54 at hotmail.com)


I can't say where it originated but there

is significant anecdotal evidence that it

was brought back to many groups in many

areas from the Denver International Convention

(1975).
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From: "Robert Stonebraker"

(rstonebraker212 at comcast.net)


The founding group in Richmond, Indiana,

began in 1946. They never held hands till

the mid-1980s, although some of the other

Richmond groups started doing so in the

early 1980s.
Bob S.
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From: "sherry c. hartsell"


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