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word "people" is found on 78 pages of the basic text. "People" isn't the

topic


either. You won't find the cliche "powerless over people places things" in

the


basic literature of AA. You won't find it in the basic literature of NA or

Al-Anon either. You won't locate the recommendation "avoid people places and

things" in the basic literature of those three fellowships, although that

nugget


is heard frequently in rehabs, AA meetings and NA meeetings. You'll hear the

chanting of "keep coming back" at virtually every AA meeting, but that's not

in

the basic text of AA either. I don't believe you'll find it in the Bigger



Book

either [the one with the black cover and ribbon]. Christ never said, "Keep

coming back." He

said, "Heal the sick...Freely have you received, freely give." In AA we

carry

the message to those who still suffer.



Pass it on.

John Lee


Pittsburgh
--- On Tue, 6/23/09, Robert Stonebraker

wrote:
From: Robert Stonebraker

Subject: RE: [AAHistoryLovers] Re: "People places things"

To: AAHistoryLovers@ yahoogroups. com

Date: Tuesday, June 23, 2009, 5:50 PM
The inquiry comes from the previous message concerning the validity of page

Dr. Paul's quote from page 417.


The answer:
The stories in the second section of the book are not considered as the

clear cut directions. Please read page 29: "Further on clear cut directions

are given showing how we recovered. These are followed by forty-two

personal experiences. "


The personal experiences are not the clear cut directions.
Bob S.
www.4dgroups. org
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From: AAHistoryLovers@ yahoogroups. com

[mailto:AAHistoryLo vers@ yahoogroups. com] On Behalf Of bridgetsbuddy

Sent: Tuesday, June 23, 2009 9:39 AM

To: AAHistoryLovers@ yahoogroups. com

Subject: [AAHistoryLovers] Re: "People places things"
What about this one? "When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person,

place, thing, or situation -- some fact of my life -- unacceptable to me,

and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing, or

situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment."

("Acceptance was the Answer," BB, 4th Ed., p.417) No?
--- In AAHistoryLovers@ yahoogroups. com

, Jon Markle

...>


wrote:

>

> Where does the concept of powerlessness over "people, places and



> things" come from?

>

> Hugs for the trudge.



>

> Jon (Raleigh)

> 9/9/82

>

> "The violets in the mountains have broken the rocks." (Tennessee



> Williams)

>

> "Hope is the feeling we have that the feeling we have is not



> permanent." (M.McLaughlin)

>

> "You know, I occasionally watch those preachers on the Christian TV



> stations. I always think to myself: How can I believe your theology

> when I can't believe your hair?" (Patricia Clarkson)

>

>

>



>

>

>



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++++Message 5833. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Pg 163 who is the AA member, the

2 psychiatrists, and the hospitals?

From: jax760 . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/26/2009 12:50:00 PM
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Dr. "Howard" is thought to be an alias. He may have been Dr. Marcus Curry,

head


of Greystone in 1939.
Regards
--- In AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com, "Lee Carroll"

wrote:


>

> The AA member was Hank Parhurst - he was living in Montclair NJ at the

time.

>

>



>

>

> Prominent psychiatrist was Dr Howard of Montclair, NJ



>

>

>



> Second psychiatrist was Dr Russell E. Blaisdell, Rockland State Hospital

> near Orangeburg NY.

>

>

>



> My interpretation of ".the doctor agreed to a test among his patients." is

> not that he had a test, per se, but rather, to test this program, which

our

> friend (Hank) had described.



>

>

>



>

>

> Lee Carroll, CPA



>

> (805) 938-1981

>

>

>



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>

> _____


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> From: AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com

> [mailto:AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of rickcard47

> Sent: Wednesday, June 24, 2009 8:21 AM

> To: AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com

> Subject: [AAHistoryLovers] Pg 163 who is the AA member, the 2

psychiatrists,

> and the hospitals?

>

>

>



>

>

>



>

>

> I am asuming that the large community is NY, but was wondering who the AA



> member was, and what the test was that "that the doctor agreed to a test

> among his patients". Also it mentions 2 psychiatrists, any ideas? And what

> was the hospital and clinic?

>

>



>

>

>



> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]

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++++Message 5834. . . . . . . . . . . . RE: Re: Pg 163 who is the AA member,

the 2 psychiatrists, and the hospitals?

From: J. Lobdell . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/27/2009 10:33:00 AM
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Marcus Curry would fit for "Chief Psychiatrist of the State of NJ" -- more

or

less -- but there's the possibility (given the "Dr. Howard") that it might



be

Dr. Howard W. S. Potter (1892-1984), of New York (Letchworth Village), a

native-born Jerseyan (Elizabeth, I think) -- tho' I don't know where he was

living in 1939. Perhaps someone could check the MS of Howard Potter's

reminiscences in the Columbia Medical Library.
> To: AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com

> From: jax760@yahoo.com

> Date: Fri, 26 Jun 2009 16:50:40 +0000

> Subject: [AAHistoryLovers] Re: Pg 163 who is the AA member, the 2

psychiatrists, and the hospitals?

>

> Dr. "Howard" is thought to be an alias. He may have been Dr. Marcus Curry,



head of Greystone in 1939.

>

> Regards



>

> --- In AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com, "Lee Carroll"

wrote:

> >


> > The AA member was Hank Parhurst - he was living in Montclair NJ at the

time.


> >

> >


> >

> >


> > Prominent psychiatrist was Dr Howard of Montclair, NJ

> >


> >

> >


> > Second psychiatrist was Dr Russell E. Blaisdell, Rockland State Hospital

> > near Orangeburg NY.

> >

> >


> >

> > My interpretation of ".the doctor agreed to a test among his patients."

is

> > not that he had a test, per se, but rather, to test this program, which



our

> > friend (Hank) had described.

> >

> >


> >

> >


> >

> > Lee Carroll, CPA

> >

> > (805) 938-1981



> >

> >


> >

> > IRS Circular 230 Tax Advice Disclaimer: As required by U.S. Treasury

> > Regulations governing tax practice, you are hereby advised that, if any

> > advice concerning one or more U.S. Federal tax issues is contained in

this

> > communication (including any attachments), such advice is not intended



or

> > written to be used, and cannot be used, for the purpose of (i) avoiding

> > penalties under the Internal Revenue Code or (ii) promoting, marketing

or

> > recommending to another party any transaction or matter addressed



herein.

> >


> >

> >


> > _____

> >


> > From: AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com

> > [mailto:AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of rickcard47

> > Sent: Wednesday, June 24, 2009 8:21 AM

> > To: AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com

> > Subject: [AAHistoryLovers] Pg 163 who is the AA member, the 2

psychiatrists,

> > and the hospitals?

> >


> >

> >


> >

> >


> >

> >


> >

> > I am asuming that the large community is NY, but was wondering who the

AA

> > member was, and what the test was that "that the doctor agreed to a test



> > among his patients". Also it mentions 2 psychiatrists, any ideas? And

what


> > was the hospital and clinic?

> >


> >

> >


> >

> >


> > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]

> >


>

>

>



>

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>

> Yahoo! Groups Links



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++++Message 5835. . . . . . . . . . . . RE: RE: "Powerless over people

places things"

From: J. Lobdell . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/27/2009 11:14:00 AM
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"There but for the Grace of God [goes old John Bradford]" is the first use I

know (1550?) of the phrase in English -- said, by a former paymaster of the

King's forces at Calais who had embezzled funds (possibly for drinking), but

been converted by Hugh Latimer and made amends and restitution, on seeing

another embezzler of the King's funds being taken away to execution. There

is

no particular question of predestination, nor is the phrase peculiar to



alcoholics -- in fact it was popularized long before the word "alcoholic"

existed. It refers quite simply to the fact that we (whoever we may be)

don't

recover (from any sin or sickness) by our own unaided efforts -- and I'm not



sure that should be contentious in A.A., or elsewhere.
> To: aahistorylovers@yahoogroups.com

> From: jennylaurie1@hotmail.com

> Date: Fri, 26 Jun 2009 07:46:39 +0000

> Subject: RE: [AAHistoryLovers] RE: "Powerless over people places things"

>

>

> Among the plethora of ideas discussed by our pioneers - for example,



establishing "AA" hospitals - about the only one to survive was the decision

to

publish the Big Book. Early members were aware that the message could be



diluted, distorted and misrepresented when passed on orally. The slogans

which


adorn the walls at so many AA meetings are not Conference-approved; though

three


of them appear at the end of chapter nine in the Big Book, viz: First Things

First; Live and Let Live; Easy Does It. One slogan - There but for the grace

of

God - is contentious, suggesting as it does that some alcoholics are chosen



for

salvation and others condemned. Likewise, the Serenity Prayer is not

Conference-approved, though undoubtedly an established part of our oral

tradition. So, unless tested by the Fellowship's group conscience as

expressed

at Conference, expressions heard at meetings, like e.g. Keep it simple

stupid,

should be taken with a pinch of salt. Some are more helpful than others;



some

are contrary to our tradition, e.g. "It (addiction) is all the same

illness."

>

> Laurie A.



>

>

> To: AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com



> From: jdf10487@yahoo.com

> Date: Wed, 24 Jun 2009 09:36:02 -0700

> Subject: Re: [AAHistoryLovers] RE: "Powerless over people places things"

>

>



>

>

>



>

>

> AA has a rich oral tradition which includes many sayings, slogans and



common

expressions.

>

> Some of these expressions can be found in the AA literature and others



can't.

Regardless of that fact, these saying and slogans are as much a part of

authentic AA History as the coffee pot. AA is as AA does, and AA does use

sayings and slogans. It always has and I believe that it always will.

>

> Sincerely, Jim F.



>

> --- On Wed, 6/24/09, johnlawlee@yahoo.com wrote:

>

> From: johnlawlee@yahoo.com



> Subject: [AAHistoryLovers] RE: "Powerless over people places things"

> To: AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com

> Date: Wednesday, June 24, 2009, 4:56 AM

>

> The topic is "powerless over people, places and things", wnich cliche is



absent from the basic literature of AA, NA and Al-Anon. The topic is not

"people, places and things." According to the Unofficial Big Book Search

Engine, the word "people" is found on 78 pages of the basic text. "People"

isn't the topic either. You won't find the cliche "powerless over people

places

things" in the basic literature of AA. You won't find it in the basic



literature

of NA or Al-Anon either. You won't locate the recommendation "avoid people

places and things" in the basic literature of those three fellowships,

although


that nugget is heard frequently in rehabs, AA meetings and NA meeetings.

You'll


hear the chanting of "keep coming back" at virtually every AA meeting, but

that's not in the basic text of AA either. I don't believe you'll find it in

the

Bigger Book either [the one with the black cover and ribbon]. Christ never



said, "Keep coming back." He

> said, "Heal the sick...Freely have you received, freely give." In AA we

carry the message to those who still suffer.

> Pass it on.

> John Lee

> Pittsburgh

>

> --- On Tue, 6/23/09, Robert Stonebraker



wrote:

>

> From: Robert Stonebraker



> Subject: RE: [AAHistoryLovers] Re: "People places things"

> To: AAHistoryLovers@ yahoogroups. com

> Date: Tuesday, June 23, 2009, 5:50 PM

>

> The inquiry comes from the previous message concerning the validity of



page

> Dr. Paul's quote from page 417.

>

> The answer:



>

> The stories in the second section of the book are not considered as the

> clear cut directions. Please read page 29: "Further on clear cut

directions

> are given showing how we recovered. These are followed by forty-two

> personal experiences. "

>

> The personal experiences are not the clear cut directions.



>

> Bob S.


>

> www.4dgroups. org

>

> ============ ========= ========= ========= ========= ========= ========



>

> From: AAHistoryLovers@ yahoogroups. com

> [mailto:AAHistoryLo vers@ yahoogroups. com] On Behalf Of bridgetsbuddy

> Sent: Tuesday, June 23, 2009 9:39 AM

> To: AAHistoryLovers@ yahoogroups. com

> Subject: [AAHistoryLovers] Re: "People places things"

>

> What about this one? "When I am disturbed, it is because I find some



person,

> place, thing, or situation -- some fact of my life -- unacceptable to me,

> and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing, or

> situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment."

> ("Acceptance was the Answer," BB, 4th Ed., p.417) No?

>

> --- In AAHistoryLovers@ yahoogroups. com



> , Jon Markle

...>


> wrote:

> >


> > Where does the concept of powerlessness over "people, places and

> > things" come from?

> >

> > Hugs for the trudge.



> >

> > Jon (Raleigh)

> > 9/9/82

> >


> > "The violets in the mountains have broken the rocks." (Tennessee

> > Williams)

> >

> > "Hope is the feeling we have that the feeling we have is not



> > permanent." (M.McLaughlin)

> >


> > "You know, I occasionally watch those preachers on the Christian TV

> > stations. I always think to myself: How can I believe your theology

> > when I can't believe your hair?" (Patricia Clarkson)

> >


> >

> >


> >

> >


> >

> > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]

> >

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++++Message 5836. . . . . . . . . . . . RE: Pg 163 -Name, Place & Date

Reference

From: Ron Sessions . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/27/2009 11:53:00 AM
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Hello Bill,

Thanks for the link to the "Big Book Name, Place, & Date References"

â“ I

recently wondered if Jim and Fred were based on real individuals â“ this



reference gave some names I can track down.

On another note â“ I noticed an error that might bear correction. I

donât

know who wrote the reference, so I am putting this into the ether.



Listed under âWe Agnosticsâ (Page 56), the âapproached by an

alcoholicâ

is linked to Bill Wilson, but based on Fitzâs story (Our Southern

Friend), the

man who made this approach was another patient in Townâs Hospital. After

this


approach was made Fitz had the âwho are you to say there is no Godâ

experience. The following day he met some of the folks that had gotten free

(assumedly Bill was one of them). Nancy Oâs bio of Fitz states

essentially the

same thing.

Iâm interested in finding out who the patient was, and what happened to

him. I

wonder at the wording applied to this individual, being described as âan



alcoholic who had KNOWN a spiritual experienceâ not âan alcoholic who

HAD a


spiritual experienceâ â“ as if to infer the man that made the

approach


didnât benefit from the info he transmitted to Fitz. Â This may simply

be a


matter of style and not substance.

In any case I would like any information other members might have about this

man.

Thanks so much,



Ron
--- On Thu, 6/25/09, Bill Lash wrote:
From: Bill Lash

Subject: RE: [AAHistoryLovers] Pg 163 who is the AA member, the 2

psychiatrists,

and the hospitals?

To: AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com

Date: Thursday, June 25, 2009, 6:04 AM


For all the "Big Book Name, Place, & Date References" please go to:
http://www.justlove audio.com/ resources/ Assorted/ Big_Book_ Name_and_

Date_References.pdf


Just Love,

Barefoot Bill


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++++Message 5837. . . . . . . . . . . . Houston S.

From: boydpickard . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/28/2009 12:48:00 AM


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Houston S. found AA in Montgomerty, Alabama in June 1944. He helped a man

named


Harry, who also had a drug problem, get sober. Through this interaction

Houston


was convenced that 12 Tweleve Steps could be applied to drug addiction as

well.
So convinced that when his company transfered him to Frankfort, Kentucky,

Houston contacted Dr.Vogel of the US Public Hospital in Lexington Kentucky (

specializing in drug addiction)and Dr. Vogel allowed Houston start an

Addicts

Anonymous Meeting using a modified version of the 12 steps of AA.


Houston remained a loyal supportor attending meetings nearly week until 1963

when he turned his duties over to Sterling S. another AA member.


Does anyone know this story and can anyone help me track down Houston's last

name. Some people say Houston Sewell and some say Houston Smith.

Any help would be appreciated.
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++++Message 5838. . . . . . . . . . . . RE: "There but for the grace of God"

From: Tom Hickcox . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/28/2009 4:21:00 PM


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