People are always blaming their circumstances
for what they are. I don’t believe in
circumstances. The people who get on in this
world are the people who get up and look for
the circumstances they want, and, if they can’t
find them, make them.
—George Bernard Shaw
Although my colleagues and I rarely promote our work in this way,
I notice
people really empowering themselves every day as we coach them in applying
the next-action technique. The light in their eyes and the lightness in their step
increase, and a positive spark shows up in their thinking and demeanor. We are
all already powerful, but deciding on and effectively
managing the physical
actions required to move things forward seems to exercise that power in ways
that call forward the more positive aspects of our nature.
When you start to make things happen, you really begin to believe that you
can make things happen. And
that
makes things happen.