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HAIMM
MEMORIAL
CENTER
WOODBRIDGE MEMORIAL GROUP
MONUMENTS
ROBERT KATZ
732-238-5213
10 MAIN STREET * WOODBRIDGE, NJ 07095
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Amanda Dillman, Advisor
USY RECAP
I would like to extend a big thanks to all of my USYers and future
USYers (better known as Kadimanicks) as well as all the USY/
Kadima parents and, of course, Doug Smoller and Jennifer James for
helping me pull off an awesome Opening Event at iPlay America.
I am also extremely proud of the USYers for doing such a fantastic
job with the High Holiday Annual Food Drive this year; South Bruns-
wick Food Pantry will be extremely grateful for the donation of the
food as well as the addition of reusable bags.
Our Sukkot event was not one to be missed,
with delicious sushi and
lots of enjoyable games; what could be bad? The USYers and Kadi-
manicks also had a great time on a cool fall day picking pumpkins,
getting lost in a corn maze, and experiencing a wild hay ride at Gia-
marese Farms. Lastly, our USYers also enjoyed spending time with
friends from all over the state at the first regional event, Regional
Opening Dance!
USY UPCOMING EVENTS
November, 2014
Thursday, November 13
th
– Decade War – 7-8:30pm – BT Youth
Lounge
Friday, November 21
st
--Sunday, November 23
rd
– Regional Fall
Kinnus – Paramus, NJ
Monday, November 25
th
– Mall Scavenger Hunt – 6:30-8:30pm –
Menlo Park Mall
SAVE THE DATE
December, 2014
Monday, December 8
th
7-8:30pm – SA/TO Superhero Craft Night – BT Youth Lounge
Friday, December 12
th
- Saturday, December 13
th
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Regional Freshman Shabbaton – Marlboro
Saturday, December 13
th
– USY Membership Event – TBD
Hannukkah Party – Details & date TBD
Friday, December 19th - Friday, December 26
th
Int’l Pre-Convention & Convention – Atlanta, GA
Question? Comments?
Want to join USY?
Contact Amanda Dillman at
nsbrunswickusy@gmail.com
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USY
As a college student the concept of time management is one I am
familiar with, whether I am good at it is another story. That being said,
I am often criticized for the way in which I spend my time once my
daily courses are finished, over the weekends, and during long breaks
in between semesters.
No, I do not engage in the prevalent college party scene, nor do I intern
for a hotshot doctor or an important government official – I staff
United Synagogue Youth (USY). I am a co-advisor for the newly
formed Lehigh Valley USY chapter in Pennsylvania, I am a regional
staff member for Hagalil USY the Northern New Jersey region, and I
am an international staff member, staffing USY Summer Programs for
two consecutive summers.
For many of those who never had the fortune of being a participant in
USY, and even more so for those who are USY alumni, the motivation
for staffing USY is something that is difficult to understand. Further-
more, fellow staff members have even ridiculed me for my significant
involvement with the organization. Frequently, I am even asked if I
think I myself am still in USY.
This is my response to all those people who want to know – why I do,
what I do. This is my response to why I spend hours on end working
on programming ideas and new marketing strategies. This is my
response to why I spend Friday mornings and Sunday nights away
from school driving to and from Allentown, PA, from who-knows-
where in NJ. And this is my response to why I chose to spend this
summer in Europe and Israel looking after 45 teenagers.
Let’s start off with getting something very important out of the way; I
do not do it for the pay, because if I did I definitely must be reading my
paychecks wrong.
As a USY staff member, I get to be a positive Jewish role model, a
Jewish educator, and a friend. I work for USY for the individual
moments. The moment when a USYer breaks out of their shell, the
moment when a USYer makes a stranger’s day, the moment when a
USYer takes their first steps in Israel, and the moment when a USYer
finds their connection to tefillah or God.
Why do I do what I do? – Because I believe in it. I firmly believe in the
morals of Conservative Judaism, including keeping kashrut, keeping
Shabbat, partaking in social action and tikkun olam, finding meaningful
connections to tefillah, and being educated in our Jewish traditions. I
believe in being well versed in Israeli politics and the way in which
Israel positively impacts the world. And lastly, I believe in the commu-
nity and family that USY creates, and the leaders of tomorrow that it
helps foster.
Yes, staffing can be time consuming, and it can get tiresome and
challenging at times, but many of these teenagers do not have a posi-
tive Jewish role model in their lives, they lack basic Jewish founda-
tions, and like normal teenagers they are struggling to be who they
want to be. I have taken it upon myself to help them along the way to
adulthood.
I will end with a story: a while back there was a teenager. He was shy,
quiet, had trouble socially interacting with other kids, was tired of
learning about Judaism, and did not have a connection to Israel. How-
ever, not so long after his first USY event things began to change. He
broke out of his shell, went on a summer program, found his connec-
tion, took on leadership positions, and went on Nativ, the Conservative
movement’s college leadership gap year program in Israel. None of
those things could have happened without the chapter advisors, re-
gional and summer staff members, and the regional and program direc-
tors.
That kid was me, and if not for the staff I encountered along the way I
would not have gone to a college where 33%
of the population is Jew-
ish, I would not be on Hillel board, I would not keep kashrut or Shab-
bat, I would not be staffing USY, and I would certainly not have writ-
ten this article. I do what I do because I owe it to the organization that
helped me get to where I am today. I believe in what USY offers, and I
believe in making a difference in Jewish young adults’ lives.
Ethan Weg attends Muhlenberg College, where he is double majoring
in Jewish Studies and Media Communications. He is the Israel Affairs
Vice President at Muhlenberg’s Hillel, and is a JNF Campus Fellow.
In addition, Ethan works for USY (United Synagogue Youth) as a
chapter advisor, a regional staff member, and a USY summer pro-
grams staff member. And ,lastly, Ethan is a graduate of the Nativ
college leadership gap year program in Israel.
Direct link to the article….
http://blogs.timesofisrael.com/why-i-do-what-i-do/#ixzz3E0ueKMsA
From: The Times of Israel blog
September 18, 2014
By Ethan Weg
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