consideration. He was practical: he raised the salary of chorus girls from thirty dollars a week to as high as one
hundred and seventy-five. And he was also chivalrous; on opening night at the Follies, he sent telegrams to the
stars in the cast, and he deluged every chorus girl in the show with American Beauty roses.
I once succumbed to the fad of fasting and went for six days and nights without eating. It wasn’t
difficult. I was less hungry at the end of the sixth day than I was at the end of the second. Yet I know, as you
know, people who would think they had committed a crime if they let their families
or employees go for six
days without food; but they will let them go for six days, and six weeks, and sometimes sixty years without
giving them the hearty appreciation that they crave almost as much as they crave food.
When Alfred Lunt, one of the great actors of his time, played the leading role in
Reunion in Vienna,
he
said, “There is nothing I need so much as nourishment for my self-esteem.”
We nourish the bodies of our children
and friends and employees, but how seldom do we nourish their
self-esteem? We provide them with roast beef and potatoes to build energy, but we neglect to give them kind
words of appreciation that would sing in their memories for years like the music of the morning stars.
Paul Harvey, in one of his radio broadcasts, “The Rest of the Story,” told how showing sincere
appreciation could change a person’s life. He reported that years ago a teacher in Detroit asked Stevie Morris to
help her find a mouse that was lost in the classroom. You see, she appreciated the fact that nature had given
Stevie something no one else in the room had. Nature had given Stevie a remarkable
pair of ears to compensate
for his blind eyes. But this was really the first time Stevie had been shown appreciation for those talented ears.
Now, years later, he says that this act of appreciation was the beginning of a new life. You see, from that time
on he developed his gift of hearing and went on to become, under the stage name of Stevie Wonder, one of the
great pop singers and songwriters of the seventies. *
* Paul Aurandt,
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