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(handlebarick at yahoo.com)
Tom D. (Lima, Ohio) and Mel B. (Toledo, Ohio) both had 60 in April 2010 and

both


gave their leads at the same dinner event May 2nd 2010 in Wapakoneta, Ohio.
Rick S.
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From: Cindy Miller (cm53 at earthlink.net)
Clyde B____ of Newtown, Pennsylvania, will have 64 years on June 20, 2010.
Best,

cindy miller


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From: Patricia
(pdixonrae at yahoo.com)
Marg W____ 60 years in St. John, New Brunswick, Canada
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From: jdschlueter@yahoo.com (jdschlueter at yahoo.com)
We have 2 in Santa Barbara, California
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++++Message 6622. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: 13th stepping

From: Patricia . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/11/2010 3:01:00 PM


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THE ORIGIN OF THE 13th STEP

From The VictorValley May 2003 Newsletter.


Yes, doing someone else's inventory is permitted, but it is also generally

frowned upon. Why? Well, it is understood among longer-lived members of this

fellowship that true personal recovery does not come from doing another's

inventory, but from sticking to one's own. Another thing that's permitted

but

generally frowned upon is "Thirteenth Stepping".


Just as AA is not a lending bank, an employment center, or a social club, AA

is

also not a dating service. How did today's concept of "Thirteenth Stepping"



arise? Originally, Old-timers recognized that our 12 Step program was indeed

a

'one day at a time' lifelong effort.


The original usage of "Thirteenth Step" was as a euphemism used by the first

AA's to signify one's final step into the casket. After practicing the 12

Steps

throughout a lifetime, it was said the deceased AA had made the "13th Step"



into

the grave."


Later, as the fellowship's experience grew, the term "13th Step" took on its

contemporary usage. The "Thirteenth Step" is commonly defined as the

practice of

dating a newcomer, or another AA member, with less than solid sobriety. It

is

widely accepted that romantic relationships are never easy, even for



non-alcoholics. Bearing in mind that alcohol and addiction is a very real

potential death sentence for an alcoholic, if we choose to risk the very

personal emotional trauma which may arise from an unsuccessful union, we

then


also risk the life of another out of our own self-will.
The admonition on pg. 119 of the "Twelve & Twelve" is an understatement of

great


magnitude. Certainly the likelihood for newcomers, or those of questionably

stable sobriety, who are pursued for (or who do pursue) romantic

relationships,

is that emotional handicaps shall indeed rise up and cripple them, causing a

significant number of them to relapse -- a relapse which can become a "13th

Step" death sentence.


Hence it's easy to understand how the term "13th Stepping" came to mean what

it

does today. That's why "Thirteenth Stepping", among informed members of the



Fellowship, is viewed as the most self-seeking, willful, and inconsiderate

behavior, and is understandably despised and discouraged. Clearly, playing

fast

and loose with another person's life is irresponsible and reprehensible. The



old

saying, "there's a slip under every skirt", in this day and age is so cute

and

coy that it fails to fully emphasize this most serious of problems.


"The problem being...?" you ask? If you are actively practicing the

"Thirteenth

Step", look no further than the closest mirror and you will see that perhaps

the


root of the problem is you.
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++++Message 6623. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: 13th stepping

From: Chuck Parkhurst . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/11/2010 8:51:00 PM


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Question about the "13th Step" as the step into

one's grave at the end of life:


In message 6622 from Patricia

(pdixonrae at yahoo.com)

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AAHistoryLovers/message/6622
She gave the text of a very interesting article on

"THE ORIGIN OF THE 13th STEP"

from The Victor Valley May 2003 Newsletter.
Do any of you have more information on this newsletter, and especially on

the


following line from that article?
"The original usage of 'Thirteenth Step' was as a euphemism used by the

first


AA's to signify one's final step into the casket. After practicing the 12

Steps


throughout a lifetime, it was said the deceased AA had made the '13th Step'

into


the grave."
The story makes total sense to me but I am hoping there is something else to

tie


it to AA. I have already emailed Patricia.
In Service with Gratitude,
Chuck Parkhurst
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++++Message 6624. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Dr. Strecker

From: diazeztone . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/12/2010 8:49:00 PM


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I guess I have had a web page about Dr Strecker and Francis T Chambers (his

co-author) for about ten years


http://www.aabibliography.com/francis_t_chambers.htm
any body have more info about Francis T Chambers??
LD Pierce

aabibliography.com


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> From: (Shakey1aa at aol.com)

>

> 2 Dr Edward A Strecker- Alcohol-One Man's Meat



>

> Michelle, our GSO Archivist, has sent me information that a man

from Philadelphia,PA in 1941 contacted New York about AA and corresponded

with


Ruth Hock after reading about AA in the Saturday Evening Post Jack Alexander

article that was spearheaded by Jimmy Burwell and the members of the

Philadelphia Mother Group. This AA Group included Members(alcoholics) as

well as


associate members (non Alcoholics) who were doctors, and members of the

clergy.


The interesting part of this correspondence from a man referred to L.B.E. is

that he got sober with the help of Dr. S. Naturally, any one familiar with

AA in

Philadelphia would think that Dr. S would be Dr. Dudley Saul of the Saul



Clinic

and a Associate Member of the Philadelphia Mother Group but this is not so.

L.B.E. writes"The last time I was in the USA I saw quite a lot of Dr. S and

talked with him quite a bit on the subject. Buddie W and Francis C who works

with him, were compatriots of mine in Philadelphia many years ago." I

recognized

Francis C as Francis Chambers who co authored a significant book about

alcoholism called "Alcoholism-One Man's Meat" The Dr S. is therefor Dr.

Edward

Strecker . A man famous in medicine. A friend to the alcoholic.Some may have



heard of the Strecker Institute.

>

> The following is the biography of Dr Strecker from the University



Of Pennsylvania ;

> Edward A. Strecker (1886-1959)

>

> Clinician, teacher, researcher, author and gentlemen - Edward Adam



Strecker lived each role fully during his active and inspiring career that

spanned nearly half a century.

> After graduating from Jefferson Medical College in 1911, Dr. Strecker

joined Pennsylvania Hospital in 1913, serving as chief medical officer at

The

Institute of Pennsylvania Hospital from 1920 to 1928, He continued his



association with the hospital until his death in 1959. Dr. Strecker served

as

professor and head of nervous and mental diseases at Jefferson Medical



College;

professor and head of the Department of Psychiatry at the University of

Pennsylvania School of Medicine and later professor and emeritus professor

and


chair of psychiatry at the University of Pennsylvania Graduate School of

Medicine. In addition, he was clinical professor of psychiatry and mental

diseases at Yale University and was the first professor of psychiatry at

Seton


Hall College of Medicine. He was president of the American Psychiatric

Association in 1943.

> He possessed an outstanding ability to examine patients, investigate

etiologic and dynamic factors and make accurate diagnoses and constructive

recommendations for treatment. A skilled psychotherapist, Dr, Strecker was

also


a superb teacher, whose colorful language created an unforgettable clinical

picture. He made psychiatry comprehensible and exciting to medical students,

psychiatric nurses and other mental health professionals, producing a

profound


effect on psychiatric teaching in Philadelphia.

> Dr. Strecker's main interest in the early 1920's was to develop the

psychiatric outpatient department of The Institute of Pennsylvania Hospital.

Under his direction, psychotherapy in that department flourished, and many

young

psychiatrists sought to have the privilege of studying therapeutic



approaches

from such a highly skilled and innovative clinician. He also sought to

relate

psychiatry to the general practice of medicine.



> A prolific writer, he authored ten books and more than 200 papers, on

such diverse subjects as alcoholism, childhood behaviors, encephalitis, head

trauma, sex offenders, war neuroses, and civilization and culture. he

authored


five editions of the best-known standard textbook at that time, Fundamentals

of

Psychiatry.



> Many honors were bestowed on Dr. Strecker, including four honorary

doctoral degrees. He served the nation in both World War I and World War II,

was named a consultant to President Roosevelt and received a presidential

citation from President Truman.

> This outstanding physician and human being serves as a model for

psychiatrists and a continuing source of pride for Pennsylvania Hospital."


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++++Message 6625. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: 13th stepping

From: andywalthall . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/12/2010 1:58:00 PM


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From andywalthall, aalogsdon, and Bill McIntire
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From: "andywalthall"

(andywalthall at yahoo.com)


From the article "Clubs in AA"

Bill W.


Grapevine April 1947
As the majority view, we might

suppose that to be a blanket endorsement for

clubs; we might think we couldn't get

along without them. We might conceive

them as a central AA institution - a sort

of "thirteenth step" of our recovery program

without which the other Twelve Steps wouldn't

work.
http://silkworth.net/grapevine/clubsandaa.html


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From: aalogsdon@aol.com (aalogsdon at aol.com)
Page 97 of Dr. Bob and the Good Oldtimers on page 97 discusses the 13th

Step.


"Together, Victor and the lady known as Lil started out to write the

"thirteenth step" long before the first twelve were ever thought of." Your

attention is drawn to this discussion which covers a few paragraphs.
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From: BILL MCINTIRE (maxbott at yahoo.com)
Read AA Comes of Age. There is a bit in there about this. I believe it

was


originally looked down on because the AA's having been sober for a while

(usually men, there were many more of them than women) they finally wanted

to

begin the rest of life over. Having only slim pickings, usually what few



women

there were around were newly sober. Not "when" but if things went badly,

it

was usually the one who had been sober the longest who had paid the bigger



price, not only having lost their invested emotions having a "now reawakened

concience, but the hard won sobriety as well.Â

When we were newly sober, "most" of us had had most of our morals and
values

worn away or rather traded away for booze. So getting into a "fling" was

not a

really hard thing to do.Â



The feelings to avoid this situation was originally to protect the old timer

from losing their hard won sobriety.


But, as successful as AA was back then, I still have not heard a whole lot

of

the tragedies which would suggest that this all comes down to the



"individuals"

own intent before action. Was they out for love or a piece of "butt"?


I personally know 2 dozen or more oldtimers that have been married for years

that their spouses were once fairly new in sobriety when they had met.


I am sober 23 years in August and my wife is sober alittle over 3

years. We

didn't plan it this way but yet here we are!!  Fat, sassy and Happy as

heck!!!


We both love the part in the Big Book that speaks about having to crush our

old


ideas.Â

Who can look at two people and decide for them if what they do is right or

wrong?
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++++Message 6626. . . . . . . . . . . . The AAHL should not be used for AA

trivia or gossip

From: planternva2000 . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/12/2010 5:31:00 PM
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Thank you, Glenn. Might I suggest adding:
This is an AA History site, not a source of AA trivia or gossip.
This evening I received the following email, which I have edited slightly:
"Sxxxxx Mxxxxxxx shares the AAHistoryLovers group with you. Sxxxxx sent you

an

invitation to join Grouply so you can see his profile, friends, and list of



groups. On Saturday (June 19), this invitation will expire. Follow this link

to

accept Sxxxxx Mxxxxxxx's invitation.



http://www.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Signing up is free and takes less than a minute.

The Grouply Team"
Thanks again,

Jim S.
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I believe Jim's point, which is well taken, is

that we should avoid mixing AAHL matters up with

our social networking systems. He was adding

this comment to something I posted several days

ago:
--- In AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com,

Glenn Chesnut wrote:

>

> Folks,


>

> Just a couple of reminders.

> ______________________________

>

> 1. The founder of the AAHistoryLovers had several oft repeated rules that



she

would announce to people who sent things in:

>

> "We are not a chat room: please do not use the list to comment on other



people's posts. Comment on the post ONLY if your message has additional

history


on the subject."

>

> "Personal opinions are to be avoided: no personal opinions, or posts based



just on rumor or vague memory of what someone told you will be posted. To

the


extent possible please list the sources for any information you send."

>

> "Messages that repeat history already on the list will not be posted:



please

use the search box to make sure the information is not already on the list.

Also please search the list before posting a question which may already have

been answered."

> ______________________________

>

> There are lots of AA chat rooms and discussion groups online. But there is



only one really first-rate history group, the AAHistoryLovers.

>

> And if we overwhelm the AAHL with the kind of messages which could be



posted

just as well in numerous other places, we will create a situation where no

one

will have time to read all the messages, and the central purpose of the AAHL



will be destroyed. We'll turn into just another AA chat room and discussion

group.


> ______________________________

>

> 2. The other reminder is that, before sending a question in, please go



first

to the Message Board at

> http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AAHistoryLovers/messages

> and use the search box at the top to search for words and phrases on that

topic.

>

> A lot of the time it will turn out that the question (or at least part of



the

question) has already been answered very thoroughly.

>

> Thanks,



>

> Glenn C., Moderator

>
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++++Message 6627. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: The AAHL should not be used for

AA trivia or gossip

From: Lawrence Willoughby . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/13/2010 10:30:00 PM
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The Rupley Team is tracking this group I have been getting Emails from them

for


a long time. I just ignore them.
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Original message from: planternva2000
Subject: [AAHistoryLovers] The AAHL should not

be used for AA trivia or gossip


This evening I received the following email, which I have edited slightly:
"Sxxxxx Mxxxxxxx shares the AAHistoryLovers group with you. Sxxxxx sent you

an

invitation to join Grouply so you can see his profile, friends, and list of



groups. On Saturday (June 19), this invitation will expire. Follow this link

to

accept Sxxxxx Mxxxxxxx's invitation.



http://www.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Signing up is free and takes less than a minute.

The Grouply Team"
Thanks again,

Jim S.
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++++Message 6628. . . . . . . . . . . . Edgar Allan Poe and the

Washingtonians

From: Jenny or Laurie Andrews . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/14/2010 12:50:00 PM
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See the reference to the Washingtonians in this

article discussing Edgar Allan Poe's short story,

"The Cask of Amontillado."
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Cask_of_Amontillado
"Poe may have also been inspired, at least in part, by the Washingtonian

movement, a fellowship that promoted temperance. The group was made up of

reformed drinkers who tried to scare people into abstaining from alcohol.

Poe


may have made a promise to join the movement in 1843 after a bout of

drinking


with the hopes of gaining a political appointment. "The Cask of Amontillado"

then may be a "dark temperance tale", meant to shock people into realizing

the

dangers of drinking."**



_____________________________________________

**Reynolds, David F. "Poe's Art of Transformation:

'The Cask of Amontillado' in Its Cultural Context",

as collected in The American Novel: New Essays on

Poe's Major Tales, Kenneth Silverman, ed. Cambridge

University Press, 1993. ISBN 0521422433 pp. 96â“7


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++++Message 6629. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: 13th stepping

From: Shakey1aa@aol.com . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/13/2010 7:22:00 PM


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Jimmy Burwell said the only time I thirteenth

stepped I married her. Meaning his third wife Rosa.


Shakey Mike

Chandigar, India


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++++Message 6630. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Split from the Oxford Group: New

York, Cleveland, Akron

From: royslev . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/14/2010 9:50:00 AM
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"Lloyd T who had been Clarence's sponsor?" I've listened to every early

recording of Clarence Snyder that I could find and he always spoke of Dr.

Bob as

his sponsor. If we're talking about Clarence Snyder here, this Lloyd T. is



news

to me. You sure it wasn't "Lloyd T. who had been Clarence's sponsee?"


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Original message No. 6582

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AAHistoryLovers/message/6582

from (agengler at wk.net)
On Akron finally making the decision to break

with the Oxford Group:


John and Elgie R. remembered when the decision was made. "There was a

meeting that night," said John, who always managed to get in a good word for

every person he mentioned. "Boy, I never heard two men talk like they did

[Dr.


Bob and T. Henry]. They passed confidence and praise to each other. And they

both deserved it.


"It was a hard time for the group," John said. "There were a lot of us who

liked


T. Henry. And we didn't know whether to leave or not."
"At the last meeting, they voted," said Elgie. "The ones who were going to

stay


with T. Henry-okay. And the ones who were going with Doc-okay. That's the

way


they said goodbye. But they had argued over it all for a month or more."
Among those who stayed were Lloyd T., who had been Clarence's sponsor, and

Bill


J.
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++++Message 6631. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Split from the Oxford Group: New

York, Cleveland, Akron

From: Glenn Chesnut . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/16/2010 4:44:00 PM
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"Lloyd T., who had been Clarence's sponsor" is a direct quote from p. 218 of

Dr.


Bob and the Good Oldtimers.
See p. 143 -- the first AA person whom Clarence Snyder's wife talked to

face-to-face was Lloyd T., but it is not clear that Clarence talked to Lloyd

at

that time. And all that Lloyd did at that point was to talk Clarence's wife



into

buying Clarence a bus ticket to Akron.


So p. 218, where Lloyd T. is described at Clarence's sponsor, may not be

well


worded -- UNLESS -- and I do not know the answer to this -- Lloyd was the

one


who guaranteed the payment of Clarence's hospital bill in Akron (see p.

143).
At that time in Akron, the "sponsor" was the one who signed for an alcoholic

when he was checked into a hospital for detoxing; the "sponsor" was the one

who


promised to pay the alcoholic's hospital bill if he did not pay. See

http://hindsfoot.org/AkrMan1.html


But yes, of course, Dr. Bob was Clarence's principal "sponsor" in the sense

in

which that term was being used by the latter 1940's.


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++++Message 6632. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Big Book Page 100 to do with

sponsorship

From: royslev . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/16/2010 9:53:00 AM
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Good post. My question is about when the actual term "sponsor" began to be

used, since it was not mentioned in the first 164 pages of the BB. Was this

an

Oxford Group term? Any experts on early Oxford Group history out there? Or



perhaps, owners of original or reprinted "What is the Oxford Group?" texts,

or

other "official" Oxford Group literature? Does Oxford Group literature



mention

that term?


I know from listening to recordings of talks by early AA pioneers like

Clarence


Snyder and Jimmy Burwell that they used the term. Clarence refers to Dr Bob

as

his "sponsor." Jimmy refers to Jackie Williams (who later drank and died) as



his

"sponsor."


Was this term already in use by the Oxford Groups and/or "alcoholic

squadron" of

the Oxford Groups in any sense as we use it today, i.e. as someone who takes

you


through the step process or at least guides you in early recovery. Or at

least,


introduces you to the meetings.
Clarence makes a point of saying that he didn't feel really a part of his

group


(Akron O.G.) until he brought in a "convert."
--- In AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com, "John R Reid" wrote:

>

> Please refer to page 100 of the Big Book in regards to working with the



new

person


> ----- Original Message -----

> From: allan_gengler

> To: AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com

> Sent: Tuesday, June 23, 2009 5:45 AM

> Subject: [AAHistoryLovers] Re: History of sponsorship

>

>



>

>

>



> Even though SPONSORSHIP is not mentioned in the book Alcoholics Anonymous

(The Big Book) I would suggest that sponsorship was the rule, from the

beginning, and not something added later.

>

> Bill called Ebby his sponsor until death, even though Ebby slipped a few



times. But the chain of sponsorship starts with Rowland Hazard, who

sponsored

Shep Cornell and Cebra Graves, who sponsored Ebby, who sponsored Bill, who

sponsored Bob who, together, sponsored Bill D., etc.

>

> In "Dr. Bob and the Good Old Timers," it's clear that NO ONE just



sauntered

in off the streets and decided to join AA. Instead they were sponsored into

the

group FROM a hospital and wouldn't even attend a meeting unless they went



through Dr. Bob's Upper Room treatment where they "made a surrender," often

a

key element missing from modern AA.



>

> Also in that book it's described how the group got together and pooled

their

money to bus a guy in who "supposedly" was the first to get sober on JUST



THE

BOOK. When the bus arrived and a man, matching his description, didn't get

off

the bus, the group asked the bus driver. They were told of a guy under the



seat

drunk on his but. The group of sober drunks, of course, helped the drunk off

and

began to sponsor him.



>

> I always thought that was interesting and have often wondered if it was

truly possible to get sober ON THE BOOK ALONE. Even if you did, you would

need


to take the advice in A Vision For You and seek out drunks to form a

fellowship,

thus becoming a sponsor.

>

> I think the real question is when did sponsorship become optional and how



sober drunks stopped seeking to sponsor and waited for someone to ask them.

Or

even the notion of being told "you must get a sponsor," when did that start.



Luckily and man decided to be my sponsor so I never got to make that

misguided

decision in the beginning.

>

> --Al



>

> --- In AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com, Charlie C wrote:

> >

> > I have been revisiting the "Little Red Book," a title discussed here at



times, and was struck by the way it recommends doing one's 5th Step with a

non-AA, e.g. a clergyman, doctor... In discussing the 8th Step, it mentions

that

one may want to refer to "older members" when unsure of how to proceed with



amends. In neither place is a sponsor mentioned.

> >


> > My understanding is that the Little Red Book represents AA practice of

the 1940s, in particular that developed by Dr. Bob. Is this correct?

> >

> > Most of all though, I am curious: when did sponsorship as we know it



today become the norm? When did the tradition, suggested in the Big Book, of

discussing one's 5th Step with an outsider become the exception, and using

one's

sponsor the rule? Are there any interviews with old timers or other records



documenting this shift? Thanks, I learn so much from this group!

> >


> > Charlie C.

> > IM = route20guy

> >

>

>



>

>

>



> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]

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++++Message 6633. . . . . . . . . . . . Use of the word sponsor

From: royslev . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/15/2010 10:14:00 AM


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I have an early AA history question. Most of us are aware that the actual

term


"sponsor" is not mentioned in the first 164 pages of our basic text (the

equivalent term "spiritual adviser" is used on page 63).


Yet when listening to AA pioneer Clarence Snyder's recordings in which he

talks


a lot about early program history when they were still going to Oxford Group

meetings before 1939 he refers to Dr. Bob as his "sponsor."


So my question is really for Oxford Group history experts: Was the term

sponsor


a common Oxford Group usage? Was it a common term used by members of the

"alcoholic squadron" of the Akron or New York Oxford groupers even though it

was

omitted by Bill in our basic text?


When did the actual word sponsor come into common usage among AA members (we

all


know it's on every other page of the 12&120 ?
I've done a search for the discussion thread on the word "sponsor" in the AA

historylovers group but this is a more precise question.


Thanks for feedback.
Roy L. ( class of `78 )

royslev@verizon.net royslev@yahoo.com


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++++Message 6634. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Sam Shoemaker and Not Maximum

From: jax760 . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/14/2010 6:53:00 PM


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I'd like to try and answer this question as well as the question in message

6606.
The evidence points to the seperation being mutual. The OG had it up to here

with the drunks (Broken stained glass windows, noisy drunk types at OG

meetings,

cigarettes,etc) and the sermon given by Jack Smith in Sam Shoemakers absence

criticizing Lois and Bill was the straw that broke the camel's back as far

as

Bill was concerned. There were other issues in Bill's mind that I wont get



into

here. The "historical idea" that "The Absolutes" were too much for the

drunks,

while probably true, was really somewhat of a smokescreen used by Bill for



the

split.
When they did split I'm sure it was painful for both Bill and Sam Shoemaker

who

were good friends. Sam had to support the split from the Oxford Group point



of

view for the following reason which he did believe with all heart at the

time.

The passge below comes from the Oxford Group book "The Guidance of God" -



Eleanor Napier Forde

and definitly reflects the Oxford Group doctrine.


"The fifth signpost, 'What say others to whom God speaks?' is the unwritten

law


of fellowship. It calls for the death of that subtle spiritual pride which

'takes conviction only from God.' It has no place for the tempermental

vagories

of the person who likes to play the rogue elephant and resents the

constraining

discipline of the 'team;' whose loyalty has no wider scope than vanity

leaves

room for. It ordains that one should be ready to let any plan of one's own,



however good, be superceded if God reveals one better through other people."
The "group guidance" had been that Bill was not to work exclusively with

drunks


but to assist with the overall Oxford group agenda. Bill of course would

have


none of that and was stung by this and other criticisms.
Interestingly enough, Bill would carry on the same thinking later when

writing


Tradition One which states the same principle but in different langauge.
Sam Shoemaker later apologized to Bill in writing for his part in the

seperation

which he recognized as his fault. I believe that Bill and Sam remained close

even after the two groups seperated although I'm sure there was some strain

in

the relationship.


God Bless,
John B
--- In AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com, "gvanrobinson"

wrote:


>

> Bill W. heaped much praise on Sam Shoemaker for his role in giving AA many

of

its basic principles. When the "anonymous bunch of drunks" were declared



"not

maximum" by the Oxford Group in New York in 1937, what was Shoemaker's

stance on

the split?

>

> I'm aware that it was in 1941 when he asked the Oxford Group to leave



Calvary

Episcopal Church. 1939 to 1941 must have been quite a time of upheaval for

him.

>
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++++Message 6635. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Big Book Page 100 to do with

sponsorship

From: Charles Knapp . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/16/2010 8:56:00 PM
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The AKRON MANUAL 1940 addresses the newcomer and

"sponsor" in the forward to this pamphlet:


"This booklet is intended to be a practical guide for new members and

sponsors


of new members of Alcoholics Anonymous."
>> See http://hindsfoot.org/AkrMan1.html

>> and http://hindsfoot.org/AkrMan2.html


Also..........
The word "SPONSOR" appears in the second issue of

the Cleveland Central Bulletin dated November 1942

in an article titled "Responsibility of Sponsors."
Charles from Wisconsin
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++++Message 6636. . . . . . . . . . . . Cleveland Archives Opening June 23,

2010


From: Bob McK. . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/16/2010 9:45:00 PM
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Weds. June 23rd, 2010 at 7 pm marks the unveiling of the two archives

areas in the Cleveland District Office: a locked display room and an open

audio-visual room. Those within reasonable driving distance of the office at

Reserve Square (1701 e 12th St lower level) may wish to attend. Thanks to

those many volunteers that constructed these areas! Thanks also to those

archives donors in Ohio and elsewhere that made this possible.


We welcome other donations of materials elucidating Cleveland AA history.
Bob McK., archivist
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++++Message 6637. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Big Book Page 100 to do with

sponsorship

From: John Steeves . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/16/2010 9:57:00 PM
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In Bill W's telling of his story to a group in New York City in Nov 1950, on

the


night of Dr. Bob's passing, the term "sponsor" was used by Bill as follows:
When Bill went to attend his first Oxford group meeting he got drunk along

the


way there. He met a sail maker in the bar. The two of them went together to

the


location where the Oxford group was meeting. When they got there the man at

the


door would not let them in (because they were so drunk) ..... Bill says that

Ebby had to "sponsor them in."


Maybe something?
SWJ
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From: royslev

To: AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com

Sent: Wed, June 16, 2010 9:53:24 AM

Subject: [AAHistoryLovers] Re: Big Book Page 100 to do with sponsorship
Good post. My question is about when the actual term "sponsor" began to be

used,


since it was not mentioned in the first 164 pages of the BB. Was this an

Oxford


Group term? Any experts on early Oxford Group history out there? Or perhaps,

owners of original or reprinted "What is the Oxford Group?" texts, or other

"official" Oxford Group literature? Does Oxford Group literature mention

that


term?
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++++Message 6638. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Big Book Page 100 to do with

sponsorship

From: Jim Hoffman . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/17/2010 9:01:00 AM
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Hi All,
Please don't base anything on that particular talk. It is not a talk by Bill

and


the meeting never really happened. It is a one man play written and

performed by

Bill McN. of New York. It is all part of a dramatization that he has done

many


times over the years.
Sorry
Jim H.
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++++Message 6639. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Big Book Page 100 to do with

sponsorship

From: J. Lobdell . . . . . . . . . . . . 6/17/2010 7:57:00 AM
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This is not an actual talk by Bill W but a dramatic creation by Bill M.

(sober


since May 22 1970) and has been publicized as such by Bill M in the pages of

MARKINGS. Although Bill M. is a devoted and dedicated student of AA history,

this cannot be taken as independent evidence of the use of the word

"sponsor."

In any case, the OG used the term "sponsor" more or less in the sense used

of

Godparents in Sacramental Baptism -- and btw at Calvary, Bill was Ebby's



sponsor.
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Original message #6637 from John Steeves


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