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behavior that was important to the children: their desire to play with some appeal-
ing toys. The experimenter first asked each child to rate the attractiveness of several
toys. He then pointed to a toy that the child considered among the most attractive
and told the child that he or she was not allowed to play with it. Half of the children
were threatened with mild punishment if they disobeyed; the other half were threat-
ened with severe punishment. The experimenter left the room for a few minutes,
giving the children the time and opportunity to play with the other toys and to resist
the temptation to play with the forbidden toy. None of the children played with the
forbidden toy.
Next, the experimenter returned and asked each child to rate how much he or she
liked each of the toys. Initially, everyone had wanted to play with the forbidden toy, but
during the temptation period, when they had the chance, not one child played with it.
Obviously, the children were experiencing dissonance. How did they respond to this
uncomfortable feeling? The children who had received a severe threat had ample justi-
fication for their restraint. They knew why they hadn’t played with the toy, and there-
fore they had no reason to change their attitude about it. These children continued to
rate the forbidden toy as highly desirable; indeed, some even found it more desirable
than they had before the threat.
But what about the others? Without much external justification for avoiding the
toy—they had little to fear if they played with it—the children in the mild threat con-
dition needed an internal justification to reduce their dissonance. Before long, they
persuaded themselves that the reason they hadn’t played with the toy was that they
didn’t like it. They rated the forbidden toy as less attractive than they had when the
experiment began.
The Lasting effects of Self-persuasion
The forbidden-toy study
was a good example of how self-justification leads to self-persuasion
in the behavior of very young children. The children who were tempted
to play with the forbidden toy but resisted came to believe that the toy
wasn’t so wonderful after all: they persuaded themselves of this belief to
justify the fact that by obeying the adults, they had given up something
they wanted. Self- persuasion is more permanent than direct attempts
at persuasion precisely because, with self- persuasion, the persuasion
takes place internally and not because of external coaxing, threats, or
pressure.
Moreover, the effects of self-persuasion in young children
can be lasting. In a replication of the forbidden-toy experiment,
the overwhelming majority of the children who had been mildly
threatened for playing with a terrific toy decided, on their own, not
to play with it, even when given the chance several weeks later; the
majority of the children who had been severely threatened played with
the forbidden toy as soon as they could (Freedman, 1965). (See Figure
6.4.) Remember these findings when you become a parent! Parents
who use punishment to encourage their children to adopt desirable values should keep
the punishment mild—barely enough to produce a change in behavior—and the values
will follow.
Not Just Tangible rewards or punishments
As we have seen, a sizable reward or
a severe punishment provides strong external justification for an action. So if you want
a person to do something or not to do something only once, the best strategy would be
to promise a large reward or threaten a severe punishment. But if you want a person
to become committed to an attitude or to a behavior, the smaller the reward or punish-
ment that will lead to momentary compliance, the greater will be the eventual change
in attitude and therefore the more permanent the effect. Large rewards and severe
punishments, because they are strong external justifications, encourage compliance but
prevent real attitude change (see Figure 6.5).
Figure 6.4
The Forbidden Toy experiment
Children who had received a threat
of mild punishment were far less
likely to play with a forbidden toy
(orange bar) than children who had
received a threat of severe pun-
ishment (blue bar). Those given
a mild threat had to provide their
own justification by devaluing the
attractiveness of the toy (“I didn’t
want to play with it anyhow”). The
resulting self-persuasion lasted for
weeks.
(Adapted from Freedman, 1965.)
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Self-Persuasion
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CHApTer 6
The Need to Justify Our Actions
This phenomenon is not limited to tangible rewards and punishments; justifications
can also come in more subtle packages. Take friendship. We like our friends, we trust
our friends, we do favors for our friends. Suppose you are at a party at the home of a
close friend. Your friend is passing around a strange-looking appetizer. “What is it?”
you ask. “Oh, it’s a fried grasshopper; I’d love you to try it.” She’s a good friend and you
don’t want to embarrass her in front of the others, so you pick one up and eat it. How
much do you think you will like this new snack food?
Now suppose you are a guest at the home of a person you don’t know well, and he
hands you, as an appetizer, a fried grasshopper and tells you that he’d really like you
to try it. You comply. Now the crucial question: In which of these two situations will
you like the taste of the grasshopper better? Common sense might suggest that the
grasshopper would taste better when recommended by a friend. But think about it for a
moment; which condition involves less external justification? Common sense notwith-
standing, dissonance theory makes the opposite prediction. In the first case, when you
ask yourself, “How come I ate that disgusting insect?” you have ample justification: you
ate it because your good friend asked you to. In the second case, you don’t have this
kind of outside justification, so you must create it. Namely, you must convince yourself
that you liked the grasshopper.
Although this may seem a rather bizarre example of dissonance-reducing behavior,
it’s not as far-fetched as you might think. Indeed, in one experiment, army reservists
were asked to eat fried grasshoppers as part of a research project on survival foods
(Zimbardo et al., 1965). Reservists who ate grasshoppers at the request of a stern, un-
pleasant officer increased their liking for grasshoppers far more than those who ate
grasshoppers at the request of a well-liked, pleasant officer. Those who complied with
the unfriendly officer’s request had little external justification for their actions. As a
result, they adopted positive attitudes toward eating grasshoppers to justify their other-
wise strange and dissonance-arousing behavior.
The Hypocrisy paradigm
People often behave in ways that run counter to their own beliefs and their best inter-
ests. For example, although college students know that AIDS and other sexually trans-
mitted diseases (STDs) are serious problems, only a small percentage use condoms.
Not a surprise; condoms are inconvenient and unromantic, and they remind people of
disease—the last thing they want to be thinking about in the heat of passion. No won-
der that sexual behavior is often accompanied by denial: “Sure, STDs are a problem,
but not for me.”
How do you break through this wall of denial? In the 1990s, Elliot Aronson and his
students set out to tackle this problem (Aronson, Fried, & Stone, 1991; Cooper, 2010;
Stone et al., 1994). They asked two groups of college students to compose a speech
Temporary change
External justification
(I do or think this because I have to)
Large reward
or severe punishment
Lasting change
Internal justification
(I do or think this because I have
convinced myself that it's right)
Small reward
or mild punishment
Figure 6.5
external versus Internal Justification
As this graphic summarizes, insufficient punishment or reward leads to self-justification, which in
turn leads to self-persuasion and lasting change. Larger rewards or punishments may produce
temporary compliance, which rarely lasts.
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