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In my experience over the past 43 yrs I have never seen nor heard of

"Charges


being pressed against an A.A. Member" except in the well documented cases

related to the printing and distribution of the early, "In The Public

Domain",

editions of our book, Alcoholics Anonymous; when there were instances of

trusted

Group servants (Sec/Treas) absconding with or misappropriating funds, the



Group

usually accepted the responsibility for having placed an individual in a

position to "do wrong", in other words the group accepted responsibility for

THEIR poor judgment.


Respectfully,

Sherry C.H.


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From: Tom Hickcox

(cometkazie1 at cox.net)


I am not a lawyer, but it would surprise me if any local A.A. group would

have


the legal standing to sue. I don't think many if any groups are considered a

legal entity and that would have to be satisfied in order to file a

complaint.
We had a non-home group member slug a home group member before a meeting

several


years ago. The aggrieved individual put a peace bond on him and the home

group


told the offending party that his presence would be disruptive. The peace

bond


prevented him from being around the member and we didn't see him any more.

We

have a veritable plethora of local meetings, so the individual's recovery



wasn't

compromised by not attending our meeting.


Tommy H in Baton Rouge
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From: an AA member from Stockholm in Sweden
My understanding of the 7th Tradition is that groups should not be sitting

on

large sums of money. The money should move down the service structure to



central

offices, area or region committees, and throughout AA as a whole. If a group

needs a high prudent reserve -- one that would make it a felony if stolen --

it

is possible to open a club bank account that requires two signatures.


At one of my groups where I got sober they had two treasurers, alternating

months, for one-year terms. That way if one ran off with the money, the

other

half was safe. Only once did someone take the money and it was on a relapse



and

the group conscience said he would, likely, pay it back if he made it back

and

got to his 9th step. Oh, and we elected a new Treasurer.


While it was before my time in AA, I have heard many oldtimers say "in

[their]


day, when they would pass the hat, they would say 'if you got a buck, put it

in

the hat; if you need a buck, take one out.'" And then there are AA's who



have

forgotten to pay for that first book they were given with the liberal credit

arrangements of "nothing done, nothing a month" until they could afford it.

Or

regulars who, more often than not, have no cash on them when the hat goes



around.
I know of two large-scale events that had their money stolen. In both cases

the


planning committees accepted immediate repayment and did not prosecute. But,

had


the money not been promptly returned, it would have been necessary to file

charges so the insurance on the events would cover the contractual

obligations.
Personally, I remember when I went to the head of the company I worked for

at

the time to tell them I was an alcoholic and staying sober thanks to AA's



twelve

steps. Part of that was to make amends and I needed to make right the money

I

had been reimbursed for my generously padded expense account. It was enough



money that it was certainly more than a misdemeanor. In the end the money

was


donated to charity -- the company exec explained it would otherwise be too

cumbersome to redo years of corporate accounting -- and they didn't even

note it

in my personnel file. He didn't want that because it would prevent me from



being

eligible for future promotions in the company.


On the other hand, when I went to make amends to my father & stepmom and pay

back the money I had stolen in my active years, my father slapped his hand

on

the table, exclaimed, "Let sleeping dogs lie," and walked out of the room.



Then,

my stepmom turned back to me and gently asked, "Are you sure that's all you

owe?"
Back to the topic... my personal preference is for the hat money to be

counted


and reported (or logged) after every meeting, and then a treasurer's report

each


business meeting. Those members that want to keep a close eye have the

opportunity, or people can rely on their trusted servants. (Personally, I

prefer

"trust, but verify" as a financial motto.)


By the way, in regard to a previous post about AA World Services suing

someone


in Germany for "'stealing' the copyright on the 1st edition Big Book that

AAWS


didn't own and was in the public domain." You may not realize, public domain

rights exist only for the text of the 1st edition of Alcoholics Anonymous

and

only in North America. AAWS still holds the international copyright on all



the

literature, including the big book.


Thanks for letting me share.
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From: "Kimball Rowe"

(roweke at msn.com)


I also do not know of any instance of personal prosecution by AA members or

groups (see the 12 concepts for world service on punitive actions) Prudence

is

always stressed. When it comes to money, prudent reserve is the fundamental



guiding principle. If a "large sum of money" was embezzled, they he should

be

applauded (for keeping the group humble) and the group should be scolded for



living above the prudent reserve. Big pockets almost always bring big

problems.

Why on earth wasn't this large sum of money not dispersed? Was the group

planning a vacation, perhaps in Hawaii? AA has always been a self-supporting

organization, and never a charity (service manual, pg 67)
off the soap box
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From: Baileygc23@aol.com

(Baileygc23 at aol.com)


We had a person identify himself as a con man, so they elected him

secretary,

the group dissolved and what small amount of books and money went the way he

wanted with no accounting.


Now he is the secretary of another group. That's AA.
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++++Message 6996. . . . . . . . . . . . A traditions question: using non-AA

speakers


From: Mike . . . . . . . . . . . . 11/8/2010 7:26:00 AM
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I have a traditions question. I believe that meditation is one of the

most misunderstood tools in our AA toolbox, so, I'd like to put on a one

hour 'meditation workshop.' I have a non-alcoholic workshop trainer

who is a Ph.D. in theology and teaches at a local seminary. He's also

worked with alcoholics over the years.
On the flyer I have a disclaimer stating that he is not endorsed or

approved by AA, and that he is volunteering his help. A couple of

people have said that doing this is against our AA traditions, I'd like

to hear what this group has to say.


Mike
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++++Message 6997. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Big Book radio talk on BBC Radio

4 on November 3

From: Jeff Bruce . . . . . . . . . . . . 11/4/2010 3:10:00 PM
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From Jeff Bruce, Larry Tooley, Laurie Andrews,

Dov W., Tom White, and MarionORedstone


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From: Jeff Bruce
It wasn't very good. It had no relationship to the manuscript. It was filled

with errors, but it did both begin and conclude with "it works," so it is

not a

catastrophe.


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> > Bill Lash had written: This show was the

> > biggest pile of crap I have ever heard!


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From: "Larry Tooley"
Thanks, Bill, for saving me the time and money!!! ha
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From: Jenny or Laurie Andrews
Agreed; and for a professor of English, careless research, e.g. Bill was not

a

travelling salesman.


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From: Dov W
I find it fascinating that strangely enough whenever popular media outlets

cover


stories with which I am intimately familiar they often seem to do a poor

job...


if I were an expert in everything I might detect a bigger picture... ;)
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From: Tom White
Suggest we not bother getting fed up with major media. They get nearly

everything wrong or more or less so. Tom W.


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> > Mike Margetis had written: This was almost

> > painful to listen to. Filled with inaccuracies.

> > It seemed as if it was someone who knew little

> > to nothing about AA and/or AA history. More than

> > disappointing, I would say more like, disturbing!)
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From: MarionORedstone@aol.com
Thank you Michael for doing the heavy lifting. You and I met briefly at the

Michiana Conference in 2008 when Ernie K. was there. The Book that Started

it

All is a true treat, though, isn't it? I liken it to being able to directly



view

the Dead Sea Scrolls but being able to read most of the glyphs. It is

fascinating. What a treat and what a gift to AA!
God is near,

Marion
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++++Message 6998. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Have AA groups ever pressed

charges against a member?

From: Bob McK. . . . . . . . . . . . . 11/8/2010 12:08:00 PM
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From: "Bob McK."
I had hoped for someone with more recent knowledge and/or status (e.g.

copyright

attorney) to enter in on this but, lacking that, I will.
While the copyright was unintentionally allowed to expire on the first two

editions of the Big Book within the USA, it remains in effect in many

foreign

countries. The governing law is called the Berne Convention and is



complicated.

What applies in some countries is that the copyright of a work created in

another country is treated as if it had been copyrighted within that

country.


Thus while the main body of the Big Book (pgs. 1-164) is "in the public

domain"


in the USA, this is not also true in Canada, Mexico, Germany and many other

countries.


It has long been the policy of the General Service Board to license one and

only


one service entity per foreign country to publish our literature. When a

second


entity in Mexico and an individual in Germany started doing this also

without


license, the licensed entities in those countries sued and our GSB furnished

the


needed legal support to aid them.
Another situation in the early '90s involved our circle-triangle trademark

being


co-opted by medallion vendors. We eventually decided that enforcing this

trademark was too expensive (and likely not winnable) so we dropped our

registration of these trademarks.
The Conference is prevented by our Concepts from taking personally punitive

action which could well be interpreted as a lawsuit; however, these actions

were

taken not by the Conference but by the General Service Board which has the



unenviable role of protecting our property both tangible and intellectual.

While


some have proposed that a Conference action take away the right of the Board

to

file suit, this would mean that anyone could then start using even our name



("Alcoholics Anonymous") without fear of reprisal.
I do not know whether a group can sue an individual. Ohio supposedly does

recognize unincorporated, undocumented organizations so I would think they

would

have standing here; but, a cursory search of Ohio case law revealed no such



suit. Many groups follow the suggestions in the pamphlet "The AA Group" and

"the


AA Group Treasurer" and have a two-signature bank account. Perhaps even more

importantly they take notice of the long form of tradition 7 where it states

"we

view with much concern those A.A. treasuries which continue, beyond prudent



reserves, to accumulate funds for no stated A.A. purpose" and make periodic

donations to the other service entities. These days it's also wise and

possible

at many banks to give a member besides the treasurer read-only access to the

bank account and statements. If a group does not practice these stewardship

principles then they may well consider themselves morally culpable in part

should a loss occur.
A group might not want to sue because it could be thought to be

controversial;

the person taking the money likely could not then pay it back even if the

suit


is successful; those treasurers who have "borrowed" from the group's funds

without their knowledge have been known to pay it back when their

circumstances

improved; it's something the group may wish to not involve itself in.


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From: "tsirish1"
Hello all,
I am sorry to say that Area 44, Northern NJ, was forced to press charges

against


its one time Treasurer for embezzling $40,000 from the treasury. At the time

of

the embezzlement, there was no Alternate Treasurer so there was not two



signatures on the checks for ANY expense during that time. The lesson here

is

that ALL members of AA are human, and some still have, after many years of



abstinence, those character defects that we humbly ask god to remove.

Furthermore, because every Area in AA is supposedly a registered non-profit

501c3 corporation, they are businesses, and in ANY business if an

"employee," in

our case "trusted servant," steals from the company, it is the duty of the

other


trusted servants to go to the appropriate authorities to handle the matter,

because in the 12 Concepts it states that servants are responsible and

accountable to those they serve, and must keep the common welfare in the

forefront. I hope this post was helpful to everyone.


Yours in service,

BB Tim
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From: Patrick Murphy

About 25 yrs ago there was a case on the east coast involving a murder. The

prosecution used a witness that had information that he had heard at a

meeting


where the defendant admitted he did it. It went to the State's Supreme

Court. In

the end it was ruled that "the witness's testimony could be used ... AA is

not


above the law"... the man was prosecuted.
--Pat
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++++Message 6999. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: A traditions question: using

non-AA speakers

From: Charley Bill . . . . . . . . . . . . 11/9/2010 10:38:00 PM
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Mike, the dissenters have probably been infected with the "Conference

Approved" virus. These folks hold that anything not conference approved

is not fit to be read by an AA member, etc. It would be interesting to

get at the origins of this awful twisting of our Traditions and the

directions in the Big Book. I believe it is mostly based on ignorance,

fear and superstition. Ignorance of AA. Fear and superstition are

probably carry overs from a childhood religion, some of which ban books,

movies, etc. AA is not a religion and must not appear as if it is is

one. See below
First, let me quote from my brand new copy of "The Book That Started It

All" page 72, Manuscript page 44, at the top. "There are many helpful

books also."
That quote is contained in a paragraph with the meager guidance Bill

gave us for meditation, now on page 87, paragraph 2 in the Fourth

Edition of the BB. Looks to me to be clear, unequivocal instruction

that we are to find material for meditation in books. He did not say

'Conference Approved" books. There was no conference at the time.

Please read that whole section on meditation and see if you can

interpret it any other way. Today, in consideration of our younger

members, we must include all forms of media as many of these new members

are not oriented towards print.
I do find that the Literature Committee of the General Service

conference has many times attempted to get some kind of a restriction to

'conference approved literature.' The Conference itself has always

wisely decided against the committee's proposals.


Now for the Traditions:
Tradition One: I see nothing here about restricting us to use of

conference approved stuff only. Do you see anything? Bill says, We

believe there isn't a fellowship on earth which lavishes more devoted

care upon its individual members; surely there is none which more

jealously guards the individual's right to think, act, talk as he

wishes." That sounds to me like the opposite of a requirement for

approval of literature. Can you agree, so far?
Tradition Two does not tell us that the sole authority in AA is the

General Service Conference. The sole authority is outside the Program -

"A loving God as he may express Himself in the group conscience."

Nothing about conference approval that I can see.


Tradition three: The only requirement for membership . . . Nothing here

about conference approved.


Tradition Four: Each Group should be autonomous-I guess a group could

ban all but conference approved stuff, but it would be cutting itself

off from the collected wisdom of all history. Is that reasonable or

appropriate? What would be the purpose of such a restriction? A

restriction to conference approved materials would cause the Fellowship

to more closely resemble a religion, some of which do restrict their

members use of the written word to materials approved by the religion.

AA is in serious trouble as a consequence of too closely resembling a

religion in the eyes of many, including the high courts in several

states. We need to examine everything we do and pull back from this

precipice. AA is a spiritual program, not a religious one.
Tradition Five: "Each group has but one primary purpose -- to carry its

message to the alcoholic who still suffers" Note the _'its_ message.'

Would a group, by group conscience method determine that it would

restrict access to only "conference approved" stuff? Perhaps, but

doubtful. It would be a warped and restricted message, wouldn't it?

Remember, the Grapevine is not "Conference Approved," and never will be

if the editorial freedom Bill Wilson intended is maintained. The

Grapevine's dozens of publications are also not conference approved.

These include many valuable and much loved resources.
Tradition Six: . . never endorse, finance or lend the A.A. name. . .

Study, learn, appreciate the writings of all as relates to recovery from

addiction, but endorse, finance of lend the A.A. name to none. (My

interpretation of how to apply Six in this question.)


Tradition Seven: Every group should be self supporting. . . Nothing

about banning non conference approved materials.I was once told that the

'only conference approved' business started because some Central Offices

wanted to lock up the market for Group purchases of literature. They

tend to handle conference approved stuff only, but they could engage in

general book selling, I suppose. They would have a great advantage over

the bookseller down the street who must pay taxes, rent, licenses, and

make a profit. If they sell other than conference approved stuff, the

members who are for restriction are doing the Central Offices a

disfavor, perhaps reducing their sales of non conference approved stuff

and reducing the revenue from sales.. Literature sales can be an

important source of income for Central Offices.


Tradition Eight: AA should forever remain unprofessional. . . This may

be another place where we are cutting ourselves off from the most highly

qualified leader and staff for the GSO, but so far it has worked very

well.. Nothing on conference approved literature that i see.


Tradition Nine: AA, as such should never be organized. Bill lived to

rue the day he relented and allowed this sentence. He seems to have

just ignored it and gone ahead and completely organized AA, but he never

to my knowledge excluded non conference approved books. Look at the

Grapevine's Catalog of unapproved books and such

http://store.aagrapevine.org/


Tradition Ten: AA has no opinion on outside issues.. . . Certainly so.

Since AA itself cannot speak and no one is designated to speak for it,

no opinion could be expressed, except possibly by actions such as suing

someone. If A.A. has no opinion on outside issues, doesn't that mean

that non conference approved material is not to be banned or excluded,

but is included if we want it? Bill points out how important it is to

not judge outside issues with his very short history of the

Washingtonians. So let's use non conference approved stuff, but never

offer 'an A.A. opinion' of it. Our own opinion is fine, but we cannot

speak for the Fellowship. Of course, that goes for me, too.


Tradition Eleven: Our public relations policy is based on attraction

rather than promotion. . . . Anonymity and all that. Nothing banning

any books here, is there?
Tradition Twelve: Anonymity, the Spiritual Foundation of our

Fellowship. i can't find book banning here, either. Can you?


I could find numerous other places in the BB where I could justify use

of non conference approved stuff, such as page 84 "We have ceased

fighting anything or anyone --" even non conference approved books.

Some of these would be an amusing strretch, so I'll leave them out for

now. I think you have enough to take care of those infected with the

"Conference Approved virus


There is another place where Bill tells us to consult professionals,

doctors, lawyers, but I cannot find it right now.


Good luck on your meditation workshop. I tried one once and it

flopped. Be sure your local expert does not start with no explanation

but a five minute period of silent meditation!
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On 11/8/2010 4:26 AM, Mike wrote:

>

> I have a traditions question. I believe that meditation is one of the



> most misunderstood tools in our AA toolbox, so, I'd like to put on a one

> hour 'meditation workshop.' I have a non-alcoholic workshop trainer

> who is a Ph.D. in theology and teaches at a local seminary. He's also

> worked with alcoholics over the years.

>

> On the flyer I have a disclaimer stating that he is not endorsed or



> approved by AA, and that he is volunteering his help. A couple of

> people have said that doing this is against our AA traditions, I'd like

> to hear what this group has to say.

>

> Mike


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++++Message 7000. . . . . . . . . . . . 11th step meditation

From: Glenn Chesnut . . . . . . . . . . . . 11/10/2010 10:10:00 PM


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The original question from message No. 6996 said in part:
"I believe that meditation is one of the most misunderstood tools in our AA

toolbox, so, I'd like to put on a one hour 'meditation workshop.'"


THE FOLLOWING THREE ARTICLES TALK ABOUT MEDITATION IN A.A.
"Twelve-Step Meditation in the A.A. Big Book and the 12 & 12"

http://hindsfoot.org/medit11.doc


"Practicing the Presence of God: the path to soul-balance and inner calm"

http://hindsfoot.org/hp5rw.html


"The God-Shaped Hole in the Human Soul"

http://hindsfoot.org/godsha.html


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++++Message 7001. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: A traditions question: using

non-AA speakers

From: gadgetsdad . . . . . . . . . . . . 11/8/2010 8:38:00 PM
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From gadgetsdad, Jon Markle, Mike Cullen, Baileygc23,

Abd ul-Rahman Lomax, Bill Walker, Dougbert, john wikelius,

Jim L in Columbus, Lynn Sawyer, John Kenney, Jared

Lobdell, Elisabeth D, and Laurie Andrews


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From: gadgetsdad
My Area has had Class A Trustees and non-Alcoholic board Chairs at Area

Workshops. We, as an Area, felt it was appropriate and not a break with the

Traditions.
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From: Jon Markle
In my understanding, "workshops" are not AA, per se, and as such do not fall

under the Traditions. They may be put together by people who are AA members,

but

that does not qualify them as affiliated under AA. Just like conventions and



other gatherings, like club-houses, for example.
And, if we look at our history, there were a lot of people involved with AA

in

an advisory role, who were not alcoholics. Doctors and preachers and other



community leaders.
Hugs for the trudge.
Jon M (Raleigh)

9/9/82
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From: "Mike Cullen"
Hi Mike,
If you are putting on a meditation class , in your home or someplace else

and


you aren't claiming to be Alcoholics Anonymous then there is no reason not

to

hold it. If the attendants happen to be recovering



alcoholics that's cool.
I go to 12 step retreats that have nothing to do with Alcoholics Anonymous

yet


everyone there is from AA ............. as long as you aren't claiming this

is

an AA meditation group.....


shalom

Mike
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From: Baileygc23@aol.com
As long as you do not claim it as an AA workshop, it should not be any

problem. Our traditions contain no "You musts" "Plenty of we oughts, but no

you

musts". Tying mediation and religious mediation is kind of tricky, but, "Our



quarrels haven't hurt us one bit".
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From: Abd ul-Rahman Lomax
Whether this is a violation of traditions or not depends on details

you have not disclosed!


You are putting on the workshop. If you are claiming that AA is

putting on the workshop, you would be, indeed, violating the traditions.


Don't use the AA name on the flyer, don't imply that AA is sponsoring

this. You are putting it on. You can suggest that it might be useful

to alcoholics. You can even suggest that it might be useful for

"working the 12 steps." (Which have become generic, lots of people

follow that as a general program.)
Now, can you announce it at an AA meeting? You can certainly tell AA

members about it, individually. You can even mention it in a share,

that you are going to attend it, or you organized it, or the like,

but here you are pushing the edges. If you are going to mention it in

a meeting, keep it to a minimum. Let people ask you about it if they

are curious.


Don't use the AA meeting to *promote* the workshop.
My suggestions.
There is another possibility. AA *can* sponsor an open workshop on

some aspect of the steps. Can a non-alcoholic speak at such a workshop?


I'm not an alcoholic, I cut my teeth in other 12-step fellowships,

but I did at one time choose a sponsor who was active in AA, and I

used to go to an *open* AA daily lunchtime meeting that was

convenient to me. And once my sponsor suggested that I speak. So I

did. I introduced myself as a "dry drunk," that I was qualified for

membership in AA because I had a desire to stop drinking (your

drinking! -- my first program was Al-Anon), but I was quite clear

that my primary addiction wasn't to alcohol, and, in fact, I never

did drink. I wasn't going to say what program had become my main

program, but ... I did say that it could be found in the phone book

under "sex."
Essentially, I had fun and people laughed and it was fine. Nobody

said "Boo!" about tradition violations.


Whether or not a local group or intergroup approaches the edges of

the traditions, or even crosses them, is up to group conscience, my

opinion, *unless it affects other groups or AA as a whole.*
What we say here on this list has no authority, though many here

certainly have great experience, worthy of respect. "For our group

purpose there is but one authority ...." That's the authority to

respect! Ask your local group or intergroup.


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From: Bill Walker
I think we need more information.
You ought not seek to affiliate your AA group with a private practitioner.

If

the flyer states the workshop/class is "sponsored" or a similar word or



thought,

then that's affiliation.


There are often workshops, seminars, round-ups, retreats, etc., that are

"promoted," and they meet with little resistance. But they're clearly not

seeking to affiliate themselves with AA as a whole, or any particular AA

group.
There are often inconsistencies. For example our local big-time fellowship

doesn't let any "non-AA-related" material get posted on its bulletin boards,

and


they police that to keep the group "clean" of outside issues. However, 20 of

the


200 members just voted 16-4 to hang an American flag outside the front door.

So

as with anything else in AA, opinions vary.


I think many participating in this group would be inclined to agree

meditation should be more widely discussed during meetings. That same

fellowship I mentioned has had an "11th-Step" meeting for at least 15 years.

I

came 'round in 2000 and not once have they meditated: it's a candlelight



meeting

discussing the essay on the 11th step in the 12&12, "or anything else you

have

on your mind." I no longer attend regularly, having memorized the essay and



no

longer needing to hide in the dark at an AA meeting!


Good Luck, my friend, you're no doubt doing good work!
Bill
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From: Dougbert
Mike,
The use of the word meditation was originally used in a Christian context,

e.g.,


reciting a passage in the Bible. Or repeat the Serenity Prayer as a western

style mantra. If you really want to help the Fellowship embrace meditation,

you

need to go to the source of true meditation . . . that would be Buddhism.



That

won't fly in our evangelical Christian A.A. dogma. You will get the idea by

reading page 223 of as Bill Sees It, to understand how Buddhists were

talking to

Bill W. But, he was trolling for an answer that was not there and as usual

would


not validate his preconceived answer, thereby not validating his

narcissistic

need for ego inflation! Your approach will go over as well as public denial

that


alcoholism is not a disease, but a behavioral disorder.
Metta,
Deep Bows,
Dougbert
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From: john wikelius
If it is a non AA function, there is no problem.
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From: Sober186@aol.com
To me, this whole question would be more appropriate or an AA discussion

group.


In the past, I have been told by the moderator that we try to stay away from

that format, because there are already so many of them, even though the

questions which are debated and discussed are often very interesting.
Jim L in Columbus
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From: Lynn Sawyer
Dear Mike,
IMHO, maybe it's against Trad. 8, which states that '... A.A. should remain

forever non-professional ...' Have you asked these individuals which Trad.

they

think it's violating?


Lynn S.

Easy does it

Sacramento, CA
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From: JOHN KENNEY
Mike, There are only 12 Traditions and the only one that I can see that

applies


is number 5. The group must carry its message to the Alcoholic. It sounds

like a


good aid to recovery. After thirty years of Sobriety I still attend retreats

to

help with Step 11. We have two non AA retreats each year and they are booked



solid. Your local AA's do not have to attend if they wish. I presume you are

not


holding this at a designated time and place of a usual AA meeting but as a

supplemental meeting either before or after or a wholly separate function.

Keep

up the good work! It is always a success if you stay sober. Take this from



one

who has been on the firing line! YIS, John


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From: "J. Lobdell"
Fwiw anyone can put on a Meditation Workshop provided A.A. doesn't come into

it.


But as soon as A.A. is in anyway linked with an outside enterprise -- as I

understand it, that becomes in violation of the Traditions against

affiliation

etc. There is no such thing as an A.A. Retreat or an A.A. Dance or an A.A.

Meditation Workshop led by non-AAs. As I understand it, your flyer should

make


no mention of A.A. nor should the workshop be sponsored by any A.A. entity

or

entities. It is true that in the area of the history of A.A., in the



Multi-District History and Archives Gatherings in Central PA from 2003,

there


has been adopted the almost forgotten format of the Public Meeting (not Open

or

Closed but Public) so that historians in attendance who are not AAs and who



have

questions can have them answered -- though the speakers and panelists are

all

AAs. It is also true that at International Conventions non-alcoholic experts



(judges for example, speaking on Courts and A.A.) take part in specialized

panels, and of course non-alcoholic Trustees speak at the GS Conference and

at

the General Sharing Session on Trustees' Weekends -- but they have legal



responsibilities at AAWS and the AAGrapevine. I don't know if they can speak

at

the Trustees' Weekend "1728" meetings -- those may also be Public Meetings



since

they are at least partly held for the Class A Trustees' benefit.


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From: "Elisabeth D"
It is no different than having an Alanon or Alateen speaker speak at an AA

dinner, which happens all the time.


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From: Laurie Andrews
"If individual AA's wish to gather together for retreats, Communion

breakfasts,

or indeed any undertaking at all, we will say 'Fine. Only we hope you won't

designate your efforts as an AA group or enterprise'." (Bill W's essay on

Concept 12, warranty five).
Did the pioneers get their idea for meditation in Step 11 from the Oxford

Group


quiet times? "The technique and system followed (by the original Akron AA's)

...


No 4: He must have devotions every morning - a 'quiet time' of prayer and

some


reading from the Bible and other religious literature. Unless this is

faithfully

followed, there is grave danger of backsliding." (Frank Amos's report on the

Akron AA group; Dr Bob and the Good Oldtimers, page 131).


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ORIGINAL QUESTION

On 11/8/2010 4:26 AM, Mike wrote:

>

> I have a traditions question. I believe that meditation is one of the



> most misunderstood tools in our AA toolbox, so, I'd like to put on a one

> hour 'meditation workshop.' I have a non-alcoholic workshop trainer

> who is a Ph.D. in theology and teaches at a local seminary. He's also

> worked with alcoholics over the years.

>

> On the flyer I have a disclaimer stating that he is not endorsed or



> approved by AA, and that he is volunteering his help. A couple of

> people have said that doing this is against our AA traditions, I'd like

> to hear what this group has to say.

>

> Mike


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++++Message 7002. . . . . . . . . . . . 15th National AA Archives Workshop

From: gerrynmt . . . . . . . . . . . . 11/9/2010 2:10:00 PM


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September 22-25, 2011 in Helena, Montana
15th National AA Archives Workshop
Their website at

http://www.aanationalarchivesworkshop.com/

has a conference flyer, registration information,

etc. Additional features will be added as time

goes on so keep checking back.
Hope to see everyone in Helena, Montana in 2011!
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++++Message 7003. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Who wrote Living Sober?

From: Tom V . . . . . . . . . . . . 11/9/2010 2:16:00 PM


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A follow up question: was a publication like

"Living Sober" vetted throughout the fellowship?

Or are decisions to publish books made by a

committee?


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++++Message 7004. . . . . . . . . . . . RE: Who wrote Living Sober?

From: Chris Budnick . . . . . . . . . . . . 11/9/2010 1:06:00 AM


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I read an exchange of letters contained in Dr. Bob's collection at Brown

University. Here are highlights from these correspondence.


MARCH 7, 1982

Barry L. writes George Dorsey, Chairperson A.A.W.S., Inc. (cc: Robert

Pearson)
"I feel mistreated more and more by A.A. World Services because they

continue to

not pay royalties on Living Sober as they do on other books."
"When first asked to take on Living Sober in 1974, I asked for a small

royalty


in lieu of a lump sum. But I received only $4,000, half of what it cost to

write


the book, with no agreement on royalties."
"It is hard to believe that past and present Conference members would ever

want


A.A.W.S. to take advantage of A.A. members this way."
"Who would say, for example, that Niles P. did not deserve as good treatment

from A.A. as Bill W. did? If it is just and fair for one member to be paid

royalties for writing, it seems equitable for other writers to receive

similar


compensation. On that basis, it is hard to justify one author's receiving

royalties on books when three others do not. What do you think?"


MARCH 25, 1982

John K. Bragg, Chairperson of A.A.W.S. Board responds to Barry


He apologizes for not responding sooner, but needed to become familiar with

the


circumstances surrounding Barry's work on "Living Sober."
"I am sorry you feel exploited or that A.A.W.S. has taken advantage of you

by

not paying you royalties on continuing sales of Living Sober. I really don't



see

any analogy between the agreement to pay royalties to Bill Wilson to support

him

for his lifelong work with Alcoholics Anonymous as its cofounder and



agreements

made with you, Ralph B., Niles P., Mel B. or many other writers engaged by

A.A.W.S. for specific jobs. And I daresay the General Service Board and the

General Service Conference would have this same view, perhaps even more

strong."
"As I'm sure you know, Bill Wilson negotiated his own royalty contract

directly


with the General Service Board. I believe that no other persons have

received


royalties for A.A. writing and I doubt strongly that anyone will in the

future."
"As I understand it, Bob Hitchins offered you $4,000 in 1974, to write a new

draft of the booklet which became Living Sober and turned over to you the

unsatisfactory first draft by another writer together with other research

material. Surely your acceptance at that time must be regarded as agreement

that


the payment was satisfactory."
"Please don't take any of the above as diminishing my admiration (and that

of

thousands of A.A. members) of your good work in carrying the message through



speaking, and you Grapevine articles, and for your devotion to the

Fellowship."


FEBRUARY 14, 1983

Letter to General Service Board Members from Barry L.


"Just before I completed the manuscript of Living Sober, the Next-to-last

letter


I had from the president of A.A. World Services, Inc., dated 17 November

1972,


indicated the royalty arrangement we had been negotiating could not be

worked


out at the present time."
"Under pressure to complete Living Sober quickly, naturally I took the

A.A.W.S.


letter in good faith and finished it well before the deadline."
"I never agreed to any lack-of-royalty arrangement and never hesitated to

express to members at G.S.O and elsewhere my dissatisfaction with the token

payment I was given."
"I waited long and patiently before raising the subject again in writing

last


year."
"As of the end of 1981, Conference Reports show A.A.W.S. has distributed

584,017


copies of the book, raking in something like $1,022,000.00 on Living Sober.

A.A.W.S. is now trying to get away with paying the author only $4,000. Is

this

really right?"


"But I do ask myself: reputedly the Board safeguards A.A.'s Traditions and

Concepts. Does it now renege on honoring the principle of its own policy

thrice

re-affirmed (1952, 1957, and 1967) that the worker is worthy of his hire



(Concept XI) - that the fair way for A.A. to pay the author of a book on

which


it makes money is royalties at the commercial publishing world's standard

rate


of 15 per cent of the retail price?"
"I am left no choice. Therefore I hereby formally file this claim for

$153,304.45 in retroactive royalties due me on Living Sober plus interest

compounded annually each April 2 beginning in 1976 at 6 per cent ($38,112.09

as

of April 1, 1983), for a total of $191,416.54."


"I also ask that A.A.W.S., Inc., as indication of good faith and honest

intentions, cease and desist immediately any publication, sale, distribution

or

advertising on Living Sober, Came to Believe, Dr. Bob and the Good



Old-Timers,"

and the forthcoming biography of Bill, until a less exploitative, more

equitable, and non-discriminatory.agreement has been made with each of the

respective authors."


"I should like the sum past due to me, with the interest, paid to me over a

period of six years, which can be negotiated with my attorney. She will also

represent me in arranging a contract for the future concerning Living

Sober."
Chris B.


Raleigh, North Carolina
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++++Message 7005. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Have AA groups ever pressed

charges against a member?

From: lee . . . . . . . . . . . . 11/11/2010 11:14:00 PM
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New York AA Archivist Frank M. and Trustee Michael

Alexander, from Lee Nickerson and Charlie Bishop, Jr.


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From: Lee Nickerson

(snowlilly12 at yahoo.com)


THE ATTACK ON NEW YORK A.A. ARCHIVIST FRANK M.
I am not a lawyer but I closely followed the German and Mexican situation

that


was an assault on AA members and on the minority opinion that was large,

organized and vocal. We had past trustees, GSO service workers, delegates

and

many knowledgeable folks trying to get AAWS's hands off these two countries.



My

understanding was that AAWS was covertly in the direct background of these

two

shameful pages of our recent history.


The point for me is that GSO and AAWS will eventually get us into a public

controversy at the level of Press, Radio, TV and the internet and a

Tradition

will be broken.


I had weekly meetings with AAWS staff and felt very close to the veil. I

once


had a GSO manager tell me that "If every group and member stopped donating,

GSO


would not be affected because we control the literature." Short-sighted

vision


of corporate agenda?
I was very close to the late Frank M., Past Archivist (the only alcoholic

Archivist) who took over from Nell Wing. We met once a month for a year

spending

time in the office researching Maine history, going out for late dinners and

even later meetings. Frank was forced to resign as the result of his

involvement

with Joe and Charlie's workshop and other movements that disturbed AAWS.

That


was the reason given by AAWS. Most in the minority felt that AAWS wanted a

non-alcoholic archivist who would be more amenable or malleable to the

tricks

forthcoming.


The next trick was when AAWS requested a payment of $150,000 from the city

of

San Diego to hold the 1995 Convention there (which they got). An uproar



erupted

but when every salaried staff worker, director and Grapevine staff is

clicked

down to submission to a larger will, things get murky and undone.


Frank M. started a movement for every AA member to send $5 and we could pay

San


Diego back. It made AAWS retaliate and Frank was soon gone after 30 years of

service to GSO.


We have people at our New York office that wrestle all day between

'fudiciary

responsibility, morality, and sprituality.'If one stacks up the

Tradition/Concept incursions in the last 20 years, one would clearly see

that

they are ready to do anything to protect the bureaucracy they have become.



The

system has taken on a life of its own and will do anything to assure its

survival.
lee nickerson
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From: Charles Bishop

(Bishopbk at comcast.net)


MICHAEL ALEXANDER QUOTE SHEER HYPOCRISY
Message #6995 said <Trustee, sometime Chairman of the Board, the lawyer who helped Bill write

the

Twelve Concepts (and loaned him a copy of Tocqueville's Democracy in America



in

the process), ideally "in AA we don't go to law, we go to prayer.">>


Lawyer Michael Alexander said what? "in AA we don't go to law, we go to

prayer."


Chairman Alexander was the primary instigator of the lawsuits against the

German


man who was ruined financially and the Mexican group that Spent over

$400,000.

defending themselves against the charge they reprinted the Big Book because

the


other Mexican group was overcharging for it.
I have an article called Spirituality vs. Legalism SHORT version.doc (109KB)

which I will send to anybody who contacts me. My e-mail address is



(Bishopbk at comcast.net)
Servus, Charlie Bishop, Jr.
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++++Message 7006. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: A traditions question: using

non-AA speakers

From: Glenn Chesnut . . . . . . . . . . . . 11/13/2010 3:29:00 PM
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From: t (tcumming at nc.rr.com)
In message no. 6996 from "Mike"


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