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a power greater than one's self. Even this

concept is forced on no one."


That was a quote from Bill Wilson.
I am sorry if, in Arthur's opinion, Bill Wilson

got the AA position all wrong.


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++++Message 6191. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: the term ex-alcoholic

From: Chuck Parkhurst . . . . . . . . . . . . 12/28/2009 10:09:00 PM


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What portion of the basic text used the term

"ex-alcoholic" and what was it changed to?


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From the moderator:
See Message 2258 from: Jim Blair

(jblair at videotron.ca)
1st Edition - changes made in the 11th Printing

- Title states "THOUSANDS OF MEN AND WOMEN."

- Increased thickness 1/16, decreased height 1/8 inches.

- P28-L22, Ex-Alcoholic to Ex-Problem Drinker.

- P30-L06, Ex-Alcoholic to Ex-Problem Drinker.

- P178-L20, Him to HIM.

- P271-L16, Ex-Alcoholic to Ex-Problem Drinker.

- P272-L06, Ex-Alcoholic to understanding

- P330-L30, Ex-Alcoholic to Non-Drinker.
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Original Message from Tommy Hickcox in Baton Rouge

Sent: Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Subject: Re: More on Huxley etc. -- the term ex-alcoholic
I would note that the First Edition of our

Big Book used the term "ex-alcoholic" six times,

on pp. 28, 30, 271, 272, and 330, and it wasn't

until the 11th Printing in 1947 that it was

changed. I suspect the term was commonly used

then.
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++++Message 6192. . . . . . . . . . . . Religion and AA

From: Arthur S . . . . . . . . . . . . 12/28/2009 6:52:00 PM


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From Jon Markle and Arthur S.
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From: "Arthur S"

(arthur.s at live.com)


The Happiest of Holidays to you Jon
I think this could make for a good historical discussion, namely "where does

religion fit in AA and what does AA owe to religion"? The answer will likely

vary substantially based on one's choice of the meaning of "religion" and

"religious" and whether or not it is conditioned on disillusionment (you

seem to perceive religion as a peril).
There is also the matter of today's secularism (where the term "spiritual"

is used as a more palatable substitute for the word "religion"). I'm not

speaking of institutionalized Religion or a specific set of beliefs of a

particular denomination. Etymologically the words "religious" and

"spiritual" are interchangeable. Search the various dictionary sites on the

web and compare the definitions of the two words."


I'll borrow from the internet:
The word "spirit" and "spiritual" generally mean "of the soul" and are

derived from the Latin word "spiritus" (the breath of life). Interestingly

"spirits" also means distilled alcohol. Arguments over which German word to

use to express the equivalent of the word "spiritual" led to the great Big

Book copyright lawsuit of a few years ago.
The term "religion" (a difficult word to define) is defined here as "any

specific system of belief, worship, or conduct that prescribes certain

responses to the existence and character of God." (I don't include atheism

in this - it is a torturous non-sequitur promulgated by legal rather than

religious matters). The term "religious" is defined as "having or showing

belief in, and reverence for, God."


My assertion is that religion (and clergy) were, and remain, a great asset

to AA. No one, except you, is positing this with the absurd notion of

"religious interference in AA" that would "kill us all" and also the notion

of citing history "real or imagined" as being "dangerous." This is a history

special interest group. Don't go off track with hyperbole and editorial.
Bill W's statements to the American Psychiatric Association 105th Annual

Meeting Montreal, Quebec, May 1949 noted that:


"Alcoholics Anonymous is not a religious organization; there is no dogma.

The one theological proposition is a "Power greater than one's self." Even

this concept is forced on no one. The newcomer merely immerses himself in

our society and tries the program as best he can. Left alone, he will surely

report the gradual onset of a transforming experience, call it what he may.

Observers once thought A.A. could appeal only to the religiously

susceptible. Yet our membership includes a former member of the American

Atheist Society and about 20,000 others almost as tough. The dying can

become remarkably open minded. Of course we speak little of conversion

nowadays because so many people really dread being God-bitten. But

conversion, as broadly described by James, does seem to be our basic

process; all other devices are but the foundation. When one alcoholic works

with another, he but consolidates and sustains that essential experience.

... We like to think Alcoholics Anonymous a middle ground between medicine

and religion, the missing catalyst of a new synthesis. This to the end that

the millions who still suffer may presently issue from their darkness into

the light of day! ... I am sure that none attending this great Hall of

Medicine will feel it untoward if I leave the last word to our silent

partner, Religion: God grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot

change, courage to change the things we can, and wisdom to know the

difference."
By the way quite a number of church congregations today have their own

recovery groups that use both the 12 Steps and the tenets of their faith and

are successful. I have a number of friends that attend both. Depending upon

one's outlook and attitude it does not have to be an either/or situation.


I remember when words such a "religion" and "church" were viewed with

respect and not considered anathema - it wasn't that long ago from "the

now".
Bill W asserted that AA's two best friends were religion and medicine.

That's still the world now.


Cheers

Arthur
PS - a final tidbit - what percentage of meetings do you think are held in

church halls at very nominal rental expense (i.e. Religions extending a

cooperative and helping hand to AA).


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From: Jon Markle (Raleigh, North Carolina)

(serenitylodge at mac.com)

Date: Mon Dec 28, 2009


Responding to John Barton: I couldn't agree with

you more, John. Thanks for saying so.


AA is no more a religious program, as such, than it is a medical or

physiological or social program . . . even though large parts of our

recovery

suggestions come from those disciplines as well.


It is the synthesis and the symbiotic relationship between all that is man

that


seems to be the key to making it work for us alcoholics. The whole person

approach. Leave one part out, or emphasize only one aspect (say "religious"

for

example) and the whole thing gets lopsided and is no more powerful -- if



even

doable -- than the sum of that one component. And we all know the trouble

the

Oxford people had getting us sober, permanently!


John Barton had written:
> (jax760 at yahoo.com)

>

> The Big Book and Twelve and Twelve contain a



> fair amount of "theological propositions". Both books espouse the

> Christian-Judeo theology of the Bible with the frequent use of such terms

as

> "Father, Creator, Maker, Father of Light who presides over us all, "Him",



> "He" etc. There is also significant use of bible quotes throughout both

texts


> such as "Thy will be done", "The Father doeth the works", "Faith without

works


> is dead" and many more too numerous and hopefully not necessary to quote

here.


>

> As Nell Wing said Bill's greatest ability was that of a "synthesizer".

Taking

> that which already existed from Medicine and Religion and adapting it to



our

> special use.

>

> Whether or not AA is Spiritual, Religious, both, neither and whether of



not

our


> twelve steps constitute "dogma" or "doctrine" would seem to be outside

issues,


> best left to the experts in the fields of sociology and anthropology.

>

> I would also point out that just because AA says ......"xyz"..... or Bill



W.

> said ..."abc".... doesn't necessarily make it so.

>

> God Bless


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From: Jon Markle

(serenitylodge at mac.com)

Date: Mon Dec 28, 2009
It seems to me that the alleged "influence" of religion, especially Western

Christian influence, we read about upon AA is more of re-write of history by

those fanatics that would have it to be so. When in fact, AA was, in my

readings, more inclined to stay away from such dogmatic influences. Since

Christianity is the dominant religion here in the USA, it seeks to take the

credit for AA by coloring anything that has to do with "spirituality", as

"theirs".
A good historian of AA history should be able to realize this misguided, but

increasing attempt to hijack the Fellowship. And that is, I hope, one thing

this list needs to avoid, "religiously".
Thank you Les, and others here, for towing the line between what is

speculation

and what is truth.
Jon Markle/MA

Retired Therapist & SA Counseling

Dual Diagnosis/COD speciality

HS Practitioner, Advisor & Case Consultations

Raleigh, NC

9/9/82
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Original message from: Jon Markle

Sent: Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Subject: Re: Huxley on Bill W. as social architect
Back in the day, so to speak, perhaps there is some basis to reason and

conclude that are mostly accurate, about no difference between "religion"

and "spiritual". But, I have my sincere doubts about such an observation,

having had some passing study of our colorful history (in AA) through this

group.
Historical facts can be cited by anyone to justify and support just about

any idea. But, that does not make it so.


However, today, it cannot be said that "religion" and "spiritual" are one in

the same. They are most decidedly NOT. And this is the world . . . the NOW .

. . that interests me most. We have resources and understanding today that

the drunks did not have back then. Dare I say, better? "More will be

revealed". Living in the past world will not help us grow. We must learn

from their mistakes. If religion offered us the answer we sought to have the

desire to drink removed, we would not need AA. Fact is, it didn't work.
And there's the crux. No one (I hope) wants religious interference in AA, I

think. That would indeed kill us all, I'm afraid. And attempts to justify

such moves, by citing "history" . . . real and imagined, are very damaging,

I think. And make AA into a thing that becomes both scary and

non-productive. Just like church could not get me sober, neither could an AA

meeting that sounds like church.


Jon Markle

Raleigh


9/9/82
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++++Message 6193. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Religion and AA

From: J. Lobdell . . . . . . . . . . . . 12/28/2009 7:24:00 PM


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I'm not sure that the AAHistoryLovers provides the proper platform for an

editorial saying "historical facts can be cited by anyone to justify and

support

just about any idea" -- followed by comments about the present state of the



religious/spiritual dichotomy (or non-dichotomy).
Comments on current affairs in AA aren't really our meat, though an argument

--

not simply dismissive comments -- on the possible false uses of history may



be.
One question, of course, is what is meant by "religion" or "religious" -- on

that depend most of the useful things we could say about the dichotomy --

always

provided we have an agreed-upon definition of "spiritual" -- but I'm not



clear

that we do. My own view fwiw is that by "spiritual" we mean pretty much what

was meant by "religious" back in the Washingtonian days, and by "religious"

pretty much what they meant by "Gospel" -- so that this isn't a new thing.


As to "justifying" religious interference in AA, I may have missed the

reference

point -- I have no idea what is being talked about. Of course, the

corporation

is incorporated under the laws of the State of New York and is considered by

that State as an religious body, so (I believe) that testimony cannot be

compelled from members on what was said in a closed meeting (there was a

court


case not too long ago) -- being considered a "religious" body has certain

advantages, I suppose.


I understand that Jon M. (if that is our correspondent's name) wants to keep

AA

out of "Church" hands, doesn't want organized religion in. Neither do I. If



he

wants to correspond on the question with me individually, I would more than

welcome it: I suspect we agree on quite a lot. But is this the proper venue?
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This is responding to Jon Markle's message

Re: Huxley on Bill W. as social architect

Date: Tue, 22 Dec 2009
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++++Message 6194. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Religion and AA

From: jenny andrews . . . . . . . . . . . . 12/29/2009 8:50:00 AM


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"Sensitivity to both the non-religious within the fellowship and the

professionally religious outside of it led Alcoholics Anonymous to resist

identification as an expression of religion. The plea within was for

'open-mindedness'. It infused AA from Dr Bob Smith's stress on 'tolerance'

to

the final substantive paragraph of the Big Book's appendix, 'Spiritual



Experience': 'We find that no one need have difficulty with the spirituality

of

the program. Willingness, honesty and open-mindednness are the essentials of



recovery. But these are indispensable'."
(From chapter eight [The context of the history of religious ideas], Not

God: a


history of Alcoholics Anonymous; Ernest Kurtz; Hazelden; 1991.)
It is confusing to conflate spirituality with religion; substitute religion

for


spirituality in the BB appendix quotation to see the difference.

Willingness,

honesty and open-mindedness are universal values not confined to religion.

Semantically spiritual also stands against material; recovery results from a

spiritual awakening; it is not a commodity.
(See Kurtz, Twelve Step Programs, in "Spirituality and the Secular Quest"

[World


Spirituality series]; editor, Peter H. Van Ness; SCM Press; 1996.)
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++++Message 6195. . . . . . . . . . . . What psychological or mental

diagnosis?

From: jaynebirch55 . . . . . . . . . . . . 12/29/2009 3:48:00 PM
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Hi there,
Jayne from Barking Big Book study. Hope you

had a fantastic christmas and wishing you the

happiest of new years.
I was wondering if you could help me with any

of the following.


Chapter 5, How it works, "usually men and women

who are constitutionally incapable of being

honest with themselves." Have you any further

information on this, such as was it a particular

mental illness Bill was refering to?
Also in chapter 8, page 114 "Sometimes there

are cases where alcoholism is complicated by

other disorders" and "unless the doctor thinks

his mental condition to abnormal or dangerous."

Do you have any details as to what these might

been or what Bill may have been refering to?


Were they thinking of precise mental conditions,

and were there specific psychological terms

which were used at that time to refer to people

with these problems?


I look forward to your reply
God bless
Jayne x x x x
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From the moderator:
Or in the case of inability to be honest with

ourselves, was this more of a philosophical

issue? I am thinking of the existentialist

philosophers of that period. Jean-Paul Sartre's

concept of mauvaise foi (literally "bad faith")

meant an attempt to manipulate other people

by a kind of deception and lying to them about

what you really wanted, which ended up with you

simultaneously believing your own lies, while

also, at some other deep level, KNOWING that

you were lying.
So mauvaise foi becomes always, inevitably,

"self-deception" and refusal to be honest with

yourself.
In the attempt to control others, you end up

losing your own freedom. You are torn in two

inside. And you end up plunged into what the

existentialist philosophers called ressentiment.


In Heidegger and Nietzsche, likewise, we have

to lie to ourselves and "live a lie" in one way

or another, in order to maintain our inauthentic

existence, and flee from the power of real life

and freedom, and avoid honestly living life on

life's terms.


There is a deeply existentialist flavor to the

Big Book, probably arising from the Zeitgeist

(the spirit of the times), the deeply shaking

experience of the First World War, and so on.

You can see it affecting the Oxford Group also,

in Philip Leon's The Philosophy of Courage:


http://stepstudy.files.wordpress.com/2008/09/philosophyofcourage.pdf
Glenn C.

South Bend, Indiana, US


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++++Message 6196. . . . . . . . . . . . Religion and AA

From: Tom Hickcox . . . . . . . . . . . . 12/29/2009 11:20:00 PM


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Jon Markle wrote:
>Back in the day, so to speak, perhaps there is some basis to reason

>and conclude that are mostly accurate, about no difference between

>"religion" and "spiritual". But, I have my sincere doubts about

>such an observation, having had some passing study of our colorful

>history (in AA) through this group.
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I was looking at a copy of an old pamphlet out of Washington of the

four classes for new alcoholics and this comes Discussion No. 2, The

Spiritual Phase, which includes Steps 2, 3, 5, 6, 7, 11, and is part

of the discussion of Step 3:


"3. RELIGION is a word we do not use in A.A. We refer to a member's

relation to God as the SPIRITUAL. A religion is a FORM of worship,

not worship itself."
This is probably the view in the '40s.
Tommy H in Baton Rouge
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From the moderator: this careful distinction

between religion and spirituality (the same

distinction that is so often made in modern AA)

was being made in AA as least as early as 1944,

as we can tell from the date on Bobbie Burger's

letter below.


This particular pamphlet (which was referred

to as the Tablemate, the Table Leader's Guide,

the Washington D.C. Pamphlet, or the Detroit

Pamphlet) was reprinted and used by early AA

groups all across the United States, from the

east coast to the west coast, and everywhere

in between.
So is it "orthodox" for AA people to continue

to make the common distinction between religion

and spirituality? If everybody in AA, all over

the country, was doing it back in the 1940's,

then it's certainly an acceptable part of the

AA historical tradition.


Wally P. says that "in the Fall of 1944, a copy of the Washington, DC

pamphlet


reached Barry C[ollins] -- one of the AA pioneers in Minneapolis. He wrote a

letter to the New York headquarters requesting permission to distribute the

pamphlet. We talk about 'Conference Approved Literature' today; but this is

the


way the Fellowship operated back then. This is a letter from Bobbie

B[urger],

Bill W.'s secretary, printed on 'Alcoholic Foundation' stationary."
November 11, 1944
Dear Barry:
. . . The Washington D.C. pamphlet and the new Cleveland "Sponsorship"

pamphlet


and a host of others are all local projects. We do not actually approve or

disapprove of these local pieces; by that I mean that the Foundation feels

each

Group is entitled to write up its own "can opener" and let it stand on its



own

merits. All of them have good points and very few have caused any

controversy.

But as in all things of a local nature, we keep hands off, either pro or

con. I

think there must be at least 25 local pamphlets now being used and I've yet



to

see one that hasn't had some good points. I think it is up to each

individual

Group whether it wants to use and buy these pamphlets from the Group that

puts

them out.


Sincerely, Bobbie (Margaret R. Burger)
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++++Message 6197. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Recovery rates -- lets look at

the DETAILS, and at a few more ea

From: Marlo Daugherty . . . . . . . . . . . . 1/2/2010 5:43:00 AM
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As someone told me on a different subject, "Don't get so hung up in the

words


that you miss the point of the story." Here's the way I see the "statistics"

in

the Foreword to the 2nd Edition: "Of alcoholics who came to A.A. and really



tried, 50% got sober at once and remained that way. . ." OK. That means that

if you are an alcoholic (as opposed to something else) and you come to A.A.

and

really try, you've got a 50-50 chance of never drinking again. Can't argue



with

that!
evergreen78


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++++Message 6198. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Recovery rates -- lets look at

the DETAILS, and at a few more early examples

From: jax760 . . . . . . . . . . . . 1/1/2010 10:22:00 PM
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My mistake .... the nine is a seven on the

document, the error was mine


Total members who have never taken a drink since joining -- 19

Number who have had only one slip since joining-- 7

Total successful 26


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